Hi everyone, It's hard to phrase this, especially as it's all very new for me :icon_bigg So I used to identify a cisgender girl until last summer, but since then I had some doubts, and after some good thinking, I've come to the conclusion that I'm not a woman and that there is a guy inside wanting to express himself. Lately I've been pondering transitioning ftm, but I don't feel a man inside either. So if I'm not a girl but I'm not a guy either, what am I ? That's what I'm trying to figure out. I identify as genderqueer for now. I'm very confused. I'd like to identify as one gender. I have already considered the thought of transitioning and I wouldn't be against it. But for that, I should be sure I'm a guy! Which I'm not. How did you figure out what your gender was? have you ever been in my situation? Any kind of feedback would be welcome. For transgender people : what made you decide you wanted to transition? For genderqueer people : What does genderqueer mean to you, and what does it imply in your life? Thank you for reading, and than you even more if you can reply to me. Have a lovely day Sheena
Hi So if I'm not a girl but I'm not a guy either, what am I ? Do you feel like you don't have a gender or such as a fusion or both genders (male + female)? About me, I identity myself as genderqueer. I'm a man inside, I have a very manly brain but my body is born androgynous. Therefore, I don't desire to have a penis because I think the penis doesn't make the man. I'm a man inside because my soul, my brain and my earth belong to a man. About my body, I'm androgynous and I feel like a fusion between man and woman. I'm a particular man. A feminine man? A gentleman? Yeah
I identify as genderfluid, before I considered myself trans and I came out to my mom but then i started going back into being a dude. I have had periods where I felt like a dude and periods where I felt like a girl and so that's why I put that label on me.
Thanks for replying, Firesmoke! I feel like I have a fusion of both genders. ---------- Post added 12th Apr 2014 at 05:42 PM ---------- Thank you! I may actually be genderfluid, but for now I'm too confused to know. Time will tell!
You're welcome :icon_bigg Well then, I think you can define yourself androgyne (that it's a branch of being genderqueer) or maybe genderfluid but I suggest you to NOT think about it too much. Let your feeling and your personality free to express itself. Because it took some times before I could define myself as genderqueer/androgyne. ---------- Post added 12th Apr 2014 at 05:46 PM ---------- Exactly! :icon_bigg
