I'm in my early forties. My crush is in her mid twenties. I believe she had initiated closeness and touch but I kind of pushed her away because at that time ie at the start I wasn't interested in her then. Now that she kind of got the (wrong) signals, she stands at a distance from me and doesn't touch me anymore. So, how do I initiate closeness or touch? PS. She still talks to me and she's a coworker.
Some things this post got me thinking about: -Does your workplace have rules on dating co-workers? This could complicate things. -Do you see her outside of work often? You could just tell her that you were unsure of your sexualty back then, but would like to try a relationship now.
-No. My workplace doesn't have any rules on dating coworkers. -No. I don't see her outside of work. Thanks for your advice. (*hug*) I had thought about doing that. However, I'm not even sure if she's a lesbian in the first place. In this part of the world, homosexuality is a taboo. So, I'm not sure how to go about finding out if she's a lesbian. Homosexuality isn't even mentioned in this part of the world.:icon_sad: I was thinking maybe I should hold/touch her hand gently when opportunity appears like when she places her hand on the start button of the photocopier. But I'm afraid she might be frightened and let out a scream or something which might bring unwanted attention to both of us. Should I go for it anyway?
