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28th Jul 2008, 08:16 PM
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| Guest Posts: n/a |  Hitting on someone Have you ever just asked out a random stranger. There is this really cute guy at Starbucks, he works there and I think he might be bi or straight...I wanna just ask him out....have any of you ever done something like that? |
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28th Jul 2008, 08:18 PM
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| Guest Posts: n/a | Re: Hitting on someone Personally I think asking out a random stranger is kinda... umm.. risky. Get to know him a little at least. You might scare him away if you randomly go up to him and ask him to go out with you |
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28th Jul 2008, 08:49 PM
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| Well Known Regular Member   Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: A few people Age: 19 Posts: 129 Join Date: Jun 2008 | Re: Hitting on someone I agree.
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28th Jul 2008, 09:35 PM
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| Banned  Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: All but some family Location: Az Lake Havasu Age: 22 Posts: 231 Join Date: Jul 2008 | Re: Hitting on someone To answer yes I have done this but none go well so you should do what Blue said |
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28th Jul 2008, 09:38 PM
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| In my Naughty Tree!!! Full Member  Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Most of my friends. Location: Ohio, USA Age: 21 Posts: 288 Join Date: Feb 2008 | Re: Hitting on someone No, No, No. Dont do it, like blue said, you dont know how someone will take it.
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29th Jul 2008, 12:20 AM
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| Oom-pah! Regular Member   Gender: Male Orientation: Not sure Out Status: Anyone who asks Location: California Age: 19 Posts: 304 Join Date: Mar 2008 | Re: Hitting on someone Just be nice and trade myspaces or something. |
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29th Jul 2008, 01:18 AM
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| wanderer... Full Member  Gender: Guy Orientation: totally G.A.Y. :) Out Status: practically everyone! Location: HB Age: 23 Posts: 167 Join Date: Mar 2008 | Re: Hitting on someone Guys working at Starbucks are always hotties. Mmm... |
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29th Jul 2008, 02:04 AM
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| EC Addict Full Member   Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Not out at all Location: Somewhere in Asia :o Age: 19 Posts: 399 Join Date: May 2008 | Re: Hitting on someone Quote:
 But to answer that question, I think it would really be quite strange for the guy you'd be asking, and maybe even creepy if he's not gay or bi. You could strike up a conversation and ask when his break times are and stuff like that. Try going to that starbucks everyday and sees if he remembers you! Good luck! 
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29th Jul 2008, 11:12 AM
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| ec's coffee addict Full Member   Gender: I'm a dude. Orientation: I like guys. Out Status: everybody knows. Location: Orange County, CA Age: 22 Posts: 247 Join Date: Apr 2007 | Re: Hitting on someone i say do it. but then again, my life motto is "live risky". I asked the captain of the swim team out in high school. he wasn't ready to come out though, but he never actually said no. and we're still friends. and he totally flirts with me. so maybe one day, at least he knows i'm interested. ;x but seriously, whats the worst he could do? look at you weird when you come in for your [insert drink here] ? if thats the case, it's not hard to find another starbucks. ;x |
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29th Jul 2008, 12:06 PM
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| Guest Posts: n/a | Re: Hitting on someone A good think to do would be to comment on a girl,while making a conversation...He probably won't tell you the truth,but you will recognize it from the tone of his voice... |
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29th Jul 2008, 12:40 PM
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| EC's Nu-Disco Walrus Full Member   Gender: IRL Yaoi Character Orientation: (｡◕‿◕。) Out Status: ㅎ_ㅎ Location: Montreal, Quebec, Canada Age: 22 Posts: 7,111 Join Date: Oct 2007 | Re: Hitting on someone Quote:
__________________ "The first duty of every Starfleet Officer is to the truth. Whether it's scientific truth, historical truth, or personal truth. It is the guiding principle to which Starfleet is based. If you can't find it within yourself, to tell the truth about what happened, then you don't deserve to where that uniform."  | |
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29th Jul 2008, 12:43 PM
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| wanderer... Full Member Gender: Guy Orientation: totally G.A.Y. :) Out Status: practically everyone! Location: HB Age: 23 Posts: 167 Join Date: Mar 2008 | Re: Hitting on someone Quote:
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29th Jul 2008, 12:47 PM
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| Guest Posts: n/a | Re: Hitting on someone I know it isn't...My opinion is that he shouldn't start anything if he is not sure,I was just being sarcastic  |
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29th Jul 2008, 04:14 PM
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| Guest Posts: n/a | Re: Hitting on someone you should totally do it!!! ive never done anything like that but i always wish i had the courage. whats the worst that could happen!! he says no... so you havent lost anything, or he says yes - bonus!!!! you never know.. he could be wishing he could ask you out but cant cus its unprofessional and he could get in trouble if you complained... GO FOR IT!!!! |
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29th Jul 2008, 04:39 PM
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| Been gone a while. Full Member   Gender: Male Orientation: DragonPhoenixLightningAwesome Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Middlesbrough, North-east England Age: 20 Posts: 2,195 Join Date: Jun 2008 | Re: Hitting on someone Just talk. Go on about seeing a movie. That way it can be a date OR just a couple of buddies going out for a film  |
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