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Ideal self

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Hexagon, Apr 24, 2014.

  1. Hexagon

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    Who and what would your ideal self be?
     
  2. Cass

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    I am beginning actually to accept myself as i am. I suppose i could be skinnier, maybe have a better singing voice. i don't know
     
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    Maybe a bit more self-confident and more eloquent:grin:
    Probably a bit more ambitious:grin:
     
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    I'd just be a girl. From birth. But as it is I have far too many mental blocks and such a tiny ego that I really don't think I would manage the transition. I suppose I'd also make my ego bigger.
     
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    - Responsible, but still cute (I know it's possible, I've seen it in certain people)
    - Completely ambiguous, when it comes to gender
    - Looks androgynous and sounds androgynous
    - Probably means I'd get misgendered 50% of the time
    - at least some sort of self-esteem for more than 5 minutes
    - As passionate about what I do as I used to be (ie, 1-2 years ago)
     
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    To look and be me as you see in my current avatar all the time. To be me. I'm pretty good looking as a girl too... not so much as male.
     
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    I would like to show more of my feminine side and be able to be more out. :tantrum:
     
  8. FireSmoke

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    To be thinner, even if I'm already on the line of the underweight/normal weight.
     
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    All I would change is my sex. I like who I am, I just don't like the bits I've got.

    Part of me wants to be smaller and cuter, but actually I think that should just stay as a fantasy.
     
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    My ideal self wold be a blonde hair petite girl with hip length hair and small breasts like not too small like a B and not like super model hot but still pretty and cute~ I would still have the same interests and same life pretty much ^.^
     
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    I just want to be a good person. My ideal self would be someone whose thoughts, actions, and words are all in alignment, y'know? Like, I don't want to think one thing but do another, or say things that I don't mean. That's all I really want from myself.
     
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    The same person, but without any mental disorders.
     
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    Physically: I'd be thinner. And I want a butt. A nice one. I like my height, hair color, etc. but maybe I'd change my face shape. Something not-so-drastically-oval would be ideal.

    Mentally/Emotionally: I'd be more sure of myself. More confident, less brooding and emotionally tender. Maybe a little more pulled together education-wise too.

    I'd also want to be financially comfortable. That's an ideal I think we all have.
     
  14. drwinchester

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    6'2", athletic and broad shouldered, sharp wit and smooth, baritone voice. ...and I'd probably have a larger than average cock and a sharp sense of style.
     
  15. KrnlKrazy

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    Well I kind of wish I was more tough overall. I've always wanted to box but just not all that strong though. Overall that mainly is it. I just want to be tough, stand my ground on things, and just be more confident and sociable then I feel I am right now.
     
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    calm, simple and in the present moment

    It is literally all I want
     
  17. Holdingb

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    Uhh, besides correct sex, I guess if I could be better at other skills that would be pretty cool. But ignoring the whole temporal causality side of changing your past self, I would make myself more attractive (as if that's possible :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:) and be able to focus a bit more I suppose- the world around me is boring, I need to find something interesting (perfect excuse!) :3
     
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    I would want to be a bit shorter, even more slim than I am, not have glasses or any acne, have a slightly higher pitched voice, and be self-confident enough to get a boyfriend and be able to show my feminine side.
     
  19. Holdingb

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    I take back what I said earlier... I would become an Al Gore, my true spirit animal. Not just any Al Gore, but a telekinetic, 12m tall, Al Gore that ran on energy drinks. Success!
     
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    Physical:

    - Being biologically male
    - Far taller (I come from a line of short people, but it would be great to break the mould and be 5'6" at the very least)
    - Perfect teeth
    - Well toned, strong and fit (a killer athletic/surfer body)
    - Nice skin that isn't blotchy
    - No signs of NF1
    - More energetic
    - Superb hearing
    - Soothing voice (I wish I had a good idea of what I'd want but I don't)
    - Faster and have much better endurance

    Mentally/Emotionally/Psychologically:

    - Smarter and wittier
    - Completely stable (free of the chokehold of depression, anxiety, paranoia, bipolar disorder, panic attacks, mania, night terrors, intrusive thoughts and so on)
    - Confident and less self conscious (I'd love to like the person I see looking back at me)
    - Calmer (nearly stress free and more laid back)
    - Better memory (I can't retain a damn thing for the life of me)
    - More trusting of other people (I question the actions of other people, even if they're sweet, kind and with good intentions and no malice)
    - Less lazy and more motivated (I never finish what I start most of the time)

    Other:
    - Musically inclined (vocally and playing)
    - Be a much better writer