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Lesbians who marry men

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by ChromeNerd, Apr 27, 2014.

  1. ChromeNerd

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    What's your opinion on women who identify as lesbian when they're younger and marry a man when they're older?
     
  2. Sarcastic Luck

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    What about them?
     
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    What, you mean 'hasbians..?'
    Ehhh... I don't like them. That's the nicest way to put it.
     
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    don't marry someone you are not attracted to.

    now if its something they both talked about that's between them, but its just not something i think should be done.

    keep in mind, this is only my opinion, in no way is it meant to judge women who do this.
     
  5. CaptainClyde

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    I think it's crap that society is so harsh on non straight people to the point that they marry someone. Love is love. Devote it to the one who inspires it.
     
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    I think it's strange that a lesbian would marry a man confusing as to why
     
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    The same as I think of anyone who marries anyone. Entirely up to them, really couldn't care less...

    If you asked me what I felt about women who identify as lesbians and then feel pressured into marrying men later for whatever reason I might have an opinion, but otherwise it's got nothing to do with me.
     
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    My cousin identify as Lesbian and she switches back and fourth between men and women i don't get it at all she should just come out as bisexual.

    I disagree with it because your lying to the guy your dating.
     
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    I think they're probably just scared, facing a lack of acceptance, or confused and actually bisexual.
     
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    Idk, they were probably bisexuals and only realized it when they met the right guy. It wouldn't feel right to hold it against them, I mean, I'm not in their skin. I get why people raise their eyebrows at such situations, but I think the nice thing to do is to give the benefit of the doubt.