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Talking To This Girl.....

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Hartosexual, Apr 27, 2014.

  1. Hartosexual

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    So I've been talking online to this girl on here and I guess I'm kinda into her and want to tell her how I feel. I've been dropping hints but either she doesn't get them or is subtley ignoring them. Someone please give me some advice?? I feel like I'm :bang: ???
     
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    I would just tell her :slight_smile:
     
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    How do I say it though?? I mean, I find it hard enough telling someone who likes me that I like them back. :frowning2:
     
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    Well one good thing is that it's online and not face-to-face, which can ease the pressure and anxiety a little bit. But I would say something like "Hey, I need to tell you something. I think I'm developing feelings for you. I was just wondering if you feel the same way. If not, then no hard feelings!" Obviously, you can tailor this to suit it the way you would say it :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Do you know her in person, or did you met on the internet? If you meet her on a daily basis, it could be awkward if she doesn't respond well. Is she gay/bi?
     
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    I will try. She lives in a different country as well though. Not the best of circumstances :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    ---------- Post added 27th Apr 2014 at 08:11 PM ----------

    She's bi. I met her on here
     
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    Well, I guess, I'd say something like
    - Hey, there's something I'd like you to know, but I can't tell it. Can you guess?

    And then give her some hints until she understands. I usually do so when I want my closest friends to know something, I really hate to talk about, and it works.
     
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    Yeah, not ideal conditions, but hey! You can figure something out...is it a really far away country?
     
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    Oh, I see, that's cute ^^
    Just tell her. Maybe she has understood just by reading this thread.
    Good luck :grin:
     
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    Ok. And not too far away. She's in the Uk. Just not in England. Santana I'll try it that way (Love your name btw) Thanks
     
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    Oh ok, so that's not that bad!!!! You guys can totally meet up then!!! That would be awesome!!! And yeah I'm sure she may understand if she reads this :slight_smile: Just go for it!! We'll all be right behind you! How about you come back on here and let us know how it went when you do it...?:slight_smile:
     
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    I will do. I told her to check out my recent post so :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    That's a good start!! :grin:
     
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    Go well?? ^.^
     
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    OMG! And?!?!?! What did she say?!?!?! Don't leave us hanging!?!?!
     
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    She was reallly awesome about if. Excuse me for a second whilst I pass out!!! :grin: I am literally over the moon.
     
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    Awesome :slight_smile: see it wasn't as hard as you thought it would be
     
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    Wasn't had at all
     
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    Young love is the best! Old love is good too...:grin: