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Old 1st Aug 2008, 12:07 PM   #1
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Default Would you still be X orientation as the other sex?

I have an interesting theoretical question. If you were the other sex, would you still have the same seuxality?

For me, I think that if I were a man I would be a gay man. I know that might not make any sense, but how do you chicks feel? Would you still be (heterosexually) attracted to men/women as the other gender, or do you feel your gayness is more integrally wired into you? I know this is all very speculative, but I find it an interesting question
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Old 1st Aug 2008, 12:10 PM   #2
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If I was a dude and I had choice of orientation, I would choose to be straight. But, if I was a dude and I had to stay bi, I'd probably date more girls than guys.

I've kind of always wondered what it would be like to be a straight guy.
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Old 1st Aug 2008, 12:16 PM   #3
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If I was a girl, I'd probably be straight <_<;
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Old 1st Aug 2008, 12:18 PM   #4
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If I was a girl, I'd probably be straight <_<;
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Old 1st Aug 2008, 12:37 PM   #5
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I would be the same cause im Bi.
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Old 1st Aug 2008, 12:42 PM   #6
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I would be the same since I am bi But I like girls more so I think I would be more straight then bi.. Ugh confusing, but either way girls have better bodies in my book.
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Old 1st Aug 2008, 04:34 PM   #7
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I've felt like and wanted to be a man all my life. I'd assume that I would stay the same.


Plus women are just too nice.
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Old 1st Aug 2008, 06:10 PM   #8
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I think I like girls too much, I seriously doubt I'd be attracted to guys.
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Old 2nd Aug 2008, 02:37 AM   #9
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Oh wow, that is a tough one=S

I think I'd still like guys... because I think I like guys because they're guys? Okay, that doesn't make sense!!!
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I don't know, I reckon I'd still like guys=)
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Old 2nd Aug 2008, 02:57 AM   #10
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hmmmmm.......

That is a tough one in all honesty I think that I might be bi as a girl leaning towards lesbian I can't really explain it but that's how I feel even if it doesn't make sense because I feel nothing for girls right now.
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Old 2nd Aug 2008, 08:31 AM   #12
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I understand what your saying, if I was guy I think I would also be gay. To me being gay is a part of me, male or female.
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Old 2nd Aug 2008, 08:33 AM   #13
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no. lol, no matter what i was i would still like guys.
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Old 2nd Aug 2008, 09:51 AM   #14
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If I was a girl I'd be bi-curious.
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Old 2nd Aug 2008, 10:44 AM   #15
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Hmm.... Gay. Women wouldn't be able to substitute men Evar!

Although I guess an iPhone could...
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Wow...if I was a woman...Well, I'd probably end up being a terrible female anyway, but on a conceptual level it would have to still be men I was attracted to. No offence to women, I just see more aesthetic attractiveness to guys. Beauty of the male form and all that. Then again, if I was a woman, I could probably more openly leer at hot guys. Maybe even pull every once in a while. Though it's supposed to be the guy that pulls, right? Confusing.
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I'd be a slut... wait what was the question?
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Wow...if I was a woman...Well, I'd probably end up being a terrible female anyway, but on a conceptual level it would have to still be men I was attracted to. No offence to women, I just see more aesthetic attractiveness to guys. Beauty of the male form and all that. Then again, if I was a woman, I could probably more openly leer at hot guys. Maybe even pull every once in a while. Though it's supposed to be the guy that pulls, right? Confusing.
This. I would make a terrible woman, I really prefer being a male....and I'm still attracted to males, that won't change no matter what body I'm in.
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Old 2nd Aug 2008, 11:46 PM   #19
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If I was a guy would be straight there is no way I could ever like guys. But then again I would never want to be a guy either lol
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If I was a woman, I would be straight...I like men too much to give them up
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