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Jealous of gay couples

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by ChromeNerd, Apr 29, 2014.

  1. ChromeNerd

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    I always get jealous of gay couples. Especially if they're younger than me. I feel kind of like a loser when I her about fourteen year olds being in gay relationships.
     
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    I get jealous about trans people being entirely out.

    (*hug*)
     
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    I get jealous of people who have someone to hold, but my time will come around :slight_smile:. as will yours.
     
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    There's no real reason to be jealous of people younger than you who are in a relationship. :wink: 90% of them end with a dramatic fight at school anyway.
     
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    Haha I'm jealous of anybody in a relationship (whether gay or straight)
    Yup I'm young and yup i'm 100% aware there's a 99% chance we'll end up split up, but I just want somebody to hold hands with, and kiss, and stay up all night with, and share secrets with, I just want somebody.
    But eh
    like everyone tells me
    He'll come around.
     
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    I know what you mean. It's especially frustrating when you know you are more attractive or interesting or whatever than the person you see in a relationship. For me, all relationships around me make me bitter for never having one.
     
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    I don't get jealous but I do feel like a loser when I see 14 and 15 year olds coming out and I only have a leg and an arm outside of the closet door. I feel like I've missed so much of my youth.
     
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    I get jealous of gay couples also.. DX
     
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    I'm jealous of them too, mostly because they've learned to accept themselves. :frowning2:
     
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    I agree!
     
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    This, 1000%.
     
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    I'm jealous of 100% passing trans.
     
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    I spent years being jealous and idolising those in relationships! However, I realised that there's no rush and there's someone out there for everyone. Someone will come along when the time is right and probably when you least expect it. I know that was the case for me!
     
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    How did it happen?
     
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    Awww i think almost a lot of us want to be in a relationship with someone special so it's in our nature to be jealous about that... i'm always jealous though of someone who can come out right from the start and not afraid to express their true feelings.
     
  16. BrokenGuy

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    Jealousy may be a normal feeling for some people, but it isn't something you want to continue being. Jealousy doesn't bring about good results, and it says a lot about you as a person; if you allow it to become out of control. Swap jealously, for admiration; and recognise that there is someone out there for everyone. Rushing into a relationship, will send you right back to the place where you hate being.
     
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    Just totally out of the blue! I was in a pub with my friends just minding my own business when a lad walked up to me and we started chatting and things went from there. Turns out I'd known him from years ago but I didn't recognise him at all at the time!
     
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    Two lovers entwined pass me by
    and heaven knows I'm miserable now


    Quoted this week already I think, but it fits so well here :confused:

    I'm jealous of all couples, but yes particularly gay couples and particularly if they're younger than me. I don't mean serious jealousy like I resent them or something, it just reminds me that I don't have and never have had a boyfriend :icon_sad:

    This story inspires me though, it'll happen soon, I have faith! :icon_bigg
     
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    I'm always jealous
     
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    It definitely will! Think positive :grin: