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How to be touchy-feely with your crush when you don't know if she/he likes you?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by emc2, Apr 30, 2014.

  1. emc2

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    How do you initiate a touchy-feely session with your crush?
    (a) If you don't even know if they like you?
    (b) If you suspect they like you?
     
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    I usually just give them a hug, or lay next to them if they are laying down resting before sports or classes. If you aren't that sure, just a hand on their shoulder or arm when talking to them.
     
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    A.)

    Touch their face, play around, be silly/goofy...

    Poke them, random hug-from-behind...

    Gauge the affection with your level of friendship. That's what I (and I'm sure everyone) does (unconciously). Hug them when you see them...

    B.)
    Smile (bonus points if they smile back 'in that way'), wink, give them a hug that is more 'pulling'. Put your arm around them around others but don't make a statement.

    C.) (if they like you and you know it)
    Make faces at them...

    DO IT!
     
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    Well, what do I know?... but I would say don't. Just get to know them better, have some more nice conversations, if you both like each other, it will probably become evident over time. If you get "touchy-feely" with someone who doesn't like you, it could be awkward. It's better to wait and let things develop naturally, than to force it early on.
     
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    I can't. I meet my crush on the internet and she lives on the other side of the country...