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Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by cowmoo, Apr 30, 2014.

  1. cowmoo

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    I am one of those not so great at spotting gays and that is a bad thing. Can someone tell me their tricks or the tall tell signs that show that show someone is gay. It would be very helpful.:help:
     
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    Usually I just talk to them to find out
     
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    Why do you think it is such a bad thing to not recognise people as being gay?
     
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    Some people are better than others when it comes to recognizing a gay man. Sometimes it won't be obvious at all, but other times there will just be something you can't quite put your finger on, and you have a small hunch. All of mine have turned out to be true! No two people are the same though, so it won't be easy as spotting a sign.
     
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    Some people can tell instantly if someone is gay or not.
    I'm quite oblivious to it and unless they are speaking like Graham Norton or Alan Carr then I just can't tell.
     
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    I know. I usually have an idea if they are or not but I fear asking & getting punched in the face if I ask.
     
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    LOL there's that. i don't think there's an appropriate way to tell if someone is gay or not. unless of course, they like to show it off and float.....(!)
    some people say that it might have to with eye contact. you can tell a lot about a person just by making eye contact.
     
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    its not easy to tell some people can tell straight away but I know people who have been a mile off am more straight acting not easy to tell .
     
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    Thanks for all the help so far.
    In response to Linco, from above, it makes it hard to do anything that would make me look gay because I have no one around for support or advise. My family is not into gays or anyone not "normal".