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Why do I only seem to be attracted to straight guys?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by amoore658, May 7, 2014.

  1. amoore658

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    I know this has probably been asked so much... But, yeah?
    It's NOT because they're straight... It just seems I'm only attracted to them?

    Has anyone else felt like this?
     
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    I know exactly what you mean I can't think of one gay person I'm attracted to but there are loads of straight people I like. Also maybe it's the temptation I find straight guys flirt with me just to annoy me so maybe that's why
     
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    OH YEAH! It's very annoying!
     
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    Could just be bad luck.

    I mean lets say you see a guy in the bar you are attracted to. He isn't doing anything to suggest he might be gay. When I say this, I mean he doesn't fit any of those obvious stereotypes and things like that.

    Now another guy walks in, acts exactly the same. Dressed in a similar way.

    Give it 10 more minutes and there are perhaps 30 guys who are all like this one dude. All acting basically the same way. Dressed in a similar fashion. Not giving any 'gay vibes' and don't fit any stereotypes.

    You could have a crush on any of these 30 guys.

    Now pick out the gay one.

    Chances are you are just falling unfortunate victim to numbers. There are more straight dudes than gay dudes...