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Does this make anyone feel insecure?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by pane123, May 9, 2014.

  1. pane123

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    I've seen threads about peoples ideal partner, and the list the things they'd want in one. For some reason it makes me feel insecure. Anyone feel the same when they see these type of threads?
     
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    Yeah, I don't even open those. I know it's not going to make me feel anything good about myself. Not worth it.
     
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    Yeah I shouldn't have looked at it. But I know no one is perfect.
     
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    Yes because nothing about me is ever on there
     
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    This reminds me of when I bought my prom dress: I said I wanted a muted colour, no sparkles and around knee length... And I fell in love with a long red dress with sparkly bits.. This is similar to my first girlfriend because I've always wanted a feminine girlfriend who has a light sense of humour and is quite immature , but I fell in love with a slightly masculine, dry humoured girl who is ridiculously sensible and mature!


    Anyways, the moral is what people think they want isn't always what they end up with, keep positive!
     
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    d'yup. but i look at them sometimes to see what the hell i might be doing wrong. as far as i can see, nada. i like me for who i am though, i saved a few people from dying because of emotional distraught. i can be happy with that. i know at some point, those can change overtime because of one person that makes life all the more awesome for them.
     
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    Ya and then I tell myself don't click on it but I always do.
     
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    No, I just think it's interesting to see other points of view.
     
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    I just find it interesting to see what others like.
     
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    I haven't seen such threads! O.O
     
  11. CharlieHK

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    I like them because a lot of times people will post things that aren't physical and it's like a spirit lifter. They'll post personalities.