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5th Aug 2008, 03:13 PM

Today I saw the girl (she used to help at my hockey training!) who made me first realise I was gay and I suppose was my first crush

It was the first time I have seen her in a long time. So I was wondering..

Who was your first crush/the person who first made you realise you where gay/bi/straight??

jazzrawr · 5th Aug 2008, 03:29 PM

Huh...
Well, I had a few girls i was attracted to but didn't know it when i was really young. But the girl who made me realize I really did like girls that way was one of my best freinds in grade 9 and this year. We've drifted apart a bit, and she's SO straight, but we're still friends i guess.
I met her in my grade 9 english class on the first day of high school.

She turned around, said "Hey, i'm Steph!

" and i was like "Uhhh...uhh, hi. Jasmine.

"
Yeah, I actually don't find her attractive at all anymore, but i was completely into her for about a year

She was my first full-blown girl crush that I didn't try to deny.
After that, i was like "I'm SO gay.

"

Kimi · 5th Aug 2008, 03:30 PM

The person who made me realized I was gay?
Hmm...

It must be this really really really hot baseball player in elementary school. I wouldn't say I had a crush on him but definitely realized that I wanna do dirty things with him

Good times...lol

**Gerry** · 5th Aug 2008, 03:33 PM

My first crush was probably when I realized I was would have to be my first boyfriend in the 8th grade.

It would've worked out much better but he sadly had to move away.

Trumpetplyer23 · 5th Aug 2008, 03:42 PM

Well. I liked a few guys, but they were little crushes.

Then I met this girl. Smart, funny, nice, and athletic. She was in my gym class. Some awkward stuff happened (not real awkward, but stuff that made me feel like a pervert).

Amy · 5th Aug 2008, 04:28 PM

there was this boy...and we were hella good friends when we were, like, 4. he had a lab puppy named elvis. and he loved peter pan. have you heard marys song? we're like that, except for the wedding. not that i mind what so ever.

in 6th grade, there was this new girl, and she was pretty much awesome, but we're good friends now.

and there was another girl, who i still have some feelings for, who made me come out of my denial phase. she hasnt spoken to me since feb. *hits head on wall...hard*

hoping · 5th Aug 2008, 04:42 PM

My first crush was my best mate when i was about 10 i think and he was amazing but he was incredibly straight, and we moved away but my sister has seen him sense then and imagine this 6 foot tall, green eyes, buff body, jeans and tank top and tanned
My sister said hes mouth watering hot. ( sigh) if only we had something to make em gay.

-Michael- · 5th Aug 2008, 04:51 PM

Probably my borthers best friends....

there was 2 aha

biisme · 5th Aug 2008, 05:00 PM

Well, I didn't have a crush that made me realize I was bi. I read a book and one of the characters was bisexual...and then I thought about it, and realized I was too.

Buuuuuuuttttt, my first crush started when I was 4 or 5, to this kid in my class. We hung out a lot when we were younger, and we're still friends now, and I still have a crush on him!!

5th Aug 2008, 06:09 PM

Mine would have to be a Prefect at my school. He was very MetroSexual and had a great butt. He was straight and my friends boyfriend.

Wander · 5th Aug 2008, 06:30 PM

I can't really say I remember. I never really had crushes on my childhood friends, and with Middle School and self-acceptance came a whole wave of them...hard to pick out the first.

lap531 · 5th Aug 2008, 10:03 PM

My first crush was freshman year on this girl named ashley. She was on my softball team, she was really athletic and hot, I had a major crush on her, I still kind of do now but shes straight

Ronnie92 · 5th Aug 2008, 10:09 PM

mine was this boy named Gabriel. Dark eyes,pouty lips cute spanish accent. We are good friends but lost the crush when he went on a huge Jehovah witness rant

AeonToy · 6th Aug 2008, 01:12 AM

one of my friends. 1/4th hispanic, really cute, plays guitar and sings....

jony8472 · 6th Aug 2008, 01:26 AM

The person who made me realise I liked guys was from ages ago><
I did some... stupid things with him, but the past's the past=)
The person who made me realise I was REALLY into guys (and eventually gay) was a guy who I became friends with at the start of year 8 (so, about 2 and a half years ago). I didn't realise I'd fallen for him until about two years ago, and then I was into him so badly for about a year, but when we went to China with school together we drifted apart (ironic, we're finally forced to be close and we drift) and so I got over him and we're just 'friends' (if that) now
So it's all good=]

And now I'm coming to terms with being gay=D

**Maddy** · 6th Aug 2008, 03:07 AM

Her name's Courtney. When I started secondary school (so I was about 12) we were in a bunch of the same classes. I didn't like her much back then, but we were both real loners and ended up drifting together because we both really needed a friend. By the time a couple of months had passed, I'd forgotten that I used to dislike her, I'd found out that she was much sweeter and much nicer than anyone gave her credit for. She was and is drop-dead gorgeous, and the first really close and affectionate female friend I'd ever had. We're still friendly, although not close any more.

dictionary · 6th Aug 2008, 03:12 AM

I had a crush on this girl on primary school... she is a total slut now unfortunatly....

6th Aug 2008, 03:37 AM

Ohhh god knows.. Ive never really had a crush on a guy, well, until now :s and even then its not really a crush. Maybe a tad bit of an obsession, but hey! Its not so bad

DylanBoy · 6th Aug 2008, 04:16 AM

i had a crush on a girl in grade 2...but i think my first crush on a boy was when i was around 10 or 11. he was a really cute outgoing kid with light brown hair that was sort of too big. he had the reddest lips. i don't think i wanted to do anything with him, but i was sort of obsessed with being like him. we became really good friends and i always liked that he thought i was cool enough to hang out with him. my first real crush (with dirty thoughts) was a kid who was older than me and helped me in boy scouts

6th Aug 2008, 05:41 AM

I think the first crush i ever had was when i was about 10, i don't think i realised for a couple of years that it was a full blown crush but it was on this girl that i've neen friends with since pre-school. I think i realised that i was crushing on her when i was about 12. We ended up going out when we were 14 lol. But the first thing to ever make me go 'ooh, she's really got it going on...and she's a girl...' was the first time i saw Avril Lavignes 'Complicated' video, at the end where its almost the last shot in the video and she's looking straight into the camera with the face that just says ' pick me up and cuddle me' lol. I still like that video...

5th Aug 2008, 03:13 PM	#1
yahooooo Guest Posts: n/a	Who was your first crush?? Today I saw the girl (she used to help at my hockey training!) who made me first realise I was gay and I suppose was my first crush It was the first time I have seen her in a long time. So I was wondering.. Who was your first crush/the person who first made you realise you where gay/bi/straight??

5th Aug 2008, 03:29 PM	#2
jazzrawr Lover of Loony Lovegood Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesimbean Out Status: I scream it from rooftops Location: Ontario, Canada. Age: 19 Posts: 3,391 Join Date: Feb 2008	Re: Who was your first crush?? Huh... Well, I had a few girls i was attracted to but didn't know it when i was really young. But the girl who made me realize I really did like girls that way was one of my best freinds in grade 9 and this year. We've drifted apart a bit, and she's SO straight, but we're still friends i guess. I met her in my grade 9 english class on the first day of high school. She turned around, said "Hey, i'm Steph! " and i was like "Uhhh...uhh, hi. Jasmine. " Yeah, I actually don't find her attractive at all anymore, but i was completely into her for about a year She was my first full-blown girl crush that I didn't try to deny. After that, i was like "I'm SO gay. " __________________ <3 You can love people so much... But you can never love someone as much as you can miss them. (...and the lesbians.)

5th Aug 2008, 03:30 PM	#3
Kimi EC's Biggest Horndog Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: Japan Age: 22 Posts: 3,017 Join Date: Feb 2007	Re: Who was your first crush?? The person who made me realized I was gay? Hmm... It must be this really really really hot baseball player in elementary school. I wouldn't say I had a crush on him but definitely realized that I wanna do dirty things with him Good times...lol __________________ AMAZINGLY, I GET HOTTER WITH MY CLOTHES OFF

5th Aug 2008, 03:33 PM	#4
Gerry We're all a little mad! EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Las Vegas Age: 24 Posts: 5,542 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: Who was your first crush?? My first crush was probably when I realized I was would have to be my first boyfriend in the 8th grade. It would've worked out much better but he sadly had to move away. __________________ "Everybody's journey is individual. If you fall in love with a boy, you fall in love with a boy. The fact that many Americans consider it a disease says more about them than it does about homosexuality".-James Baldwin

5th Aug 2008, 04:28 PM	#6
Amy DFTBA Full Member Gender: Somewhere between female and I don't know Out Status: Open, not out. Location: Northern California, United States Age: 18 Posts: 2,380 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: Who was your first crush?? there was this boy...and we were hella good friends when we were, like, 4. he had a lab puppy named elvis. and he loved peter pan. have you heard marys song? we're like that, except for the wedding. not that i mind what so ever. in 6th grade, there was this new girl, and she was pretty much awesome, but we're good friends now. and there was another girl, who i still have some feelings for, who made me come out of my denial phase. she hasnt spoken to me since feb. hits head on wall...hard __________________ "The opposite of love is not hate, but fear" Forrest Church

5th Aug 2008, 04:42 PM	#7
hoping EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: australia Age: 23 Posts: 527 Join Date: May 2007	Re: Who was your first crush?? My first crush was my best mate when i was about 10 i think and he was amazing but he was incredibly straight, and we moved away but my sister has seen him sense then and imagine this 6 foot tall, green eyes, buff body, jeans and tank top and tanned My sister said hes mouth watering hot. ( sigh) if only we had something to make em gay. __________________ On to canada in 2012

5th Aug 2008, 04:51 PM	#8
-Michael- Been gone a while. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: DragonPhoenixLightningAwesome Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Middlesbrough, North-east England Age: 20 Posts: 2,198 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: Who was your first crush?? Probably my borthers best friends.... there was 2 aha

5th Aug 2008, 05:00 PM	#9
biisme Call me Katie Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Ask me and I'll tell you. Location: Lincoln, Rhode Island Age: 20 Posts: 8,119 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: Who was your first crush?? Well, I didn't have a crush that made me realize I was bi. I read a book and one of the characters was bisexual...and then I thought about it, and realized I was too. Buuuuuuuttttt, my first crush started when I was 4 or 5, to this kid in my class. We hung out a lot when we were younger, and we're still friends now, and I still have a crush on him!! __________________ From BIG problems to little problems, from broken hearts to broken shoelaces, I really do care. Feel free to PM me anytime about anything. I want to know.

5th Aug 2008, 06:09 PM	#10
Tommy Price Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Who was your first crush?? Mine would have to be a Prefect at my school. He was very MetroSexual and had a great butt. He was straight and my friends boyfriend.

5th Aug 2008, 06:30 PM	#11
Wander Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Parents, aunts, grandma, counselor, online friends Location: Central Alabama Age: 18 Posts: 2,360 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: Who was your first crush?? I can't really say I remember. I never really had crushes on my childhood friends, and with Middle School and self-acceptance came a whole wave of them...hard to pick out the first.

5th Aug 2008, 10:03 PM	#12
lap531 Taste the Rainbow! Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Everyone Location: Cincinnati, Ohio Age: 19 Posts: 209 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: Who was your first crush?? My first crush was freshman year on this girl named ashley. She was on my softball team, she was really athletic and hot, I had a major crush on her, I still kind of do now but shes straight

5th Aug 2008, 10:09 PM	#13
Ronnie92 Musical Comic Geek Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Bisexual with a preference for guys Out Status: So much better than before Location: Atlantic City,NJ Age: 19 Posts: 732 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: Who was your first crush?? mine was this boy named Gabriel. Dark eyes,pouty lips cute spanish accent. We are good friends but lost the crush when he went on a huge Jehovah witness rant __________________ "Why should I apologize for being who I am when I am just being true to my self."-Ororo Munroe Xx Marie,Oswaldo,Tim,Igor Kenny,Amy,Sarah My EC Besties Forever xX Member of the Sailor Moon Made Me Gay Club

6th Aug 2008, 01:12 AM	#14
AeonToy Well Known Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: 90% of friends/family Location: Los Angeles Posts: 150 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: Who was your first crush?? one of my friends. 1/4th hispanic, really cute, plays guitar and sings....

6th Aug 2008, 01:26 AM	#15
jony8472 Take care all=} Full Member Gender: Male Out Status: Most everyone knows =] Location: Bath, UK Age: 19 Posts: 201 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: Who was your first crush?? The person who made me realise I liked guys was from ages ago>< I did some... stupid things with him, but the past's the past=) The person who made me realise I was REALLY into guys (and eventually gay) was a guy who I became friends with at the start of year 8 (so, about 2 and a half years ago). I didn't realise I'd fallen for him until about two years ago, and then I was into him so badly for about a year, but when we went to China with school together we drifted apart (ironic, we're finally forced to be close and we drift) and so I got over him and we're just 'friends' (if that) now So it's all good=] And now I'm coming to terms with being gay=D __________________ Take care all=} K thx Baizz!!

6th Aug 2008, 03:07 AM	#16
Maddy Free Hugs EC Admin Gender: - Orientation: Into girls Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 21 Posts: 7,700 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: Who was your first crush?? Her name's Courtney. When I started secondary school (so I was about 12) we were in a bunch of the same classes. I didn't like her much back then, but we were both real loners and ended up drifting together because we both really needed a friend. By the time a couple of months had passed, I'd forgotten that I used to dislike her, I'd found out that she was much sweeter and much nicer than anyone gave her credit for. She was and is drop-dead gorgeous, and the first really close and affectionate female friend I'd ever had. We're still friendly, although not close any more. __________________ how strange it is to be anything at all [Victor] 2:09 pm: and then halloween happened and I was outside in a skirt.

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6th Aug 2008, 03:12 AM	#17
dictionary EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: Melbourne Age: 19 Posts: 459 Join Date: Sep 2007	Re: Who was your first crush?? I had a crush on this girl on primary school... she is a total slut now unfortunatly....

6th Aug 2008, 03:37 AM	#18
Ty Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Who was your first crush?? Ohhh god knows.. Ive never really had a crush on a guy, well, until now :s and even then its not really a crush. Maybe a tad bit of an obsession, but hey! Its not so bad

6th Aug 2008, 04:16 AM	#19
DylanBoy Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Mostly gay Out Status: parents and some friends Location: New York Age: 27 Posts: 41 Join Date: May 2008	Re: Who was your first crush?? i had a crush on a girl in grade 2...but i think my first crush on a boy was when i was around 10 or 11. he was a really cute outgoing kid with light brown hair that was sort of too big. he had the reddest lips. i don't think i wanted to do anything with him, but i was sort of obsessed with being like him. we became really good friends and i always liked that he thought i was cool enough to hang out with him. my first real crush (with dirty thoughts) was a kid who was older than me and helped me in boy scouts

6th Aug 2008, 05:41 AM	#20
nodoubtjunkie Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Who was your first crush?? I think the first crush i ever had was when i was about 10, i don't think i realised for a couple of years that it was a full blown crush but it was on this girl that i've neen friends with since pre-school. I think i realised that i was crushing on her when i was about 12. We ended up going out when we were 14 lol. But the first thing to ever make me go 'ooh, she's really got it going on...and she's a girl...' was the first time i saw Avril Lavignes 'Complicated' video, at the end where its almost the last shot in the video and she's looking straight into the camera with the face that just says ' pick me up and cuddle me' lol. I still like that video...