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Who was your first crush??

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by yahooooo, Aug 5, 2008.

  1. yahooooo

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    Today I saw the girl (she used to help at my hockey training!) who made me first realise I was gay and I suppose was my first crush :slight_smile: It was the first time I have seen her in a long time. So I was wondering..

    Who was your first crush/the person who first made you realise you where gay/bi/straight??
     
  2. jazzrawr

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    Huh...
    Well, I had a few girls i was attracted to but didn't know it when i was really young. But the girl who made me realize I really did like girls that way was one of my best freinds in grade 9 and this year. We've drifted apart a bit, and she's SO straight, but we're still friends i guess.
    I met her in my grade 9 english class on the first day of high school. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
    She turned around, said "Hey, i'm Steph! :slight_smile:" and i was like "Uhhh...uhh, hi. Jasmine. :grin:"
    Yeah, I actually don't find her attractive at all anymore, but i was completely into her for about a year :eusa_doh:
    She was my first full-blown girl crush that I didn't try to deny.
    After that, i was like "I'm SO gay. :bang:"
     
  3. Kimi

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    The person who made me realized I was gay?
    Hmm...

    It must be this really really really hot baseball player in elementary school. I wouldn't say I had a crush on him but definitely realized that I wanna do dirty things with him:badgrin:

    Good times...lol
     
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    My first crush was probably when I realized I was would have to be my first boyfriend in the 8th grade. :slight_smile: It would've worked out much better but he sadly had to move away.
     
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    Well. I liked a few guys, but they were little crushes.

    Then I met this girl. Smart, funny, nice, and athletic. She was in my gym class. Some awkward stuff happened (not real awkward, but stuff that made me feel like a pervert).
     
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    there was this boy...and we were hella good friends when we were, like, 4. he had a lab puppy named elvis. and he loved peter pan. have you heard marys song? we're like that, except for the wedding. not that i mind what so ever.

    in 6th grade, there was this new girl, and she was pretty much awesome, but we're good friends now.

    and there was another girl, who i still have some feelings for, who made me come out of my denial phase. she hasnt spoken to me since feb. *hits head on wall...hard*
     
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    My first crush was my best mate when i was about 10 i think and he was amazing but he was incredibly straight, and we moved away but my sister has seen him sense then and imagine this 6 foot tall, green eyes, buff body, jeans and tank top and tanned
    My sister said hes mouth watering hot. ( sigh) if only we had something to make em gay.
     
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    Probably my borthers best friends....

    there was 2 aha
     
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    Well, I didn't have a crush that made me realize I was bi. I read a book and one of the characters was bisexual...and then I thought about it, and realized I was too. :slight_smile:

    Buuuuuuuttttt, my first crush started when I was 4 or 5, to this kid in my class. We hung out a lot when we were younger, and we're still friends now, and I still have a crush on him!!
     
  10. Tommy Price

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    Mine would have to be a Prefect at my school. He was very MetroSexual and had a great butt. He was straight and my friends boyfriend.
     
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    I can't really say I remember. I never really had crushes on my childhood friends, and with Middle School and self-acceptance came a whole wave of them...hard to pick out the first.
     
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    My first crush was freshman year on this girl named ashley. She was on my softball team, she was really athletic and hot, I had a major crush on her, I still kind of do now but shes straight
     
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    mine was this boy named Gabriel. Dark eyes,pouty lips cute spanish accent. We are good friends but lost the crush when he went on a huge Jehovah witness rant
     
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    one of my friends. 1/4th hispanic, really cute, plays guitar and sings....
     
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    The person who made me realise I liked guys was from ages ago><
    I did some... stupid things with him, but the past's the past=)
    The person who made me realise I was REALLY into guys (and eventually gay) was a guy who I became friends with at the start of year 8 (so, about 2 and a half years ago). I didn't realise I'd fallen for him until about two years ago, and then I was into him so badly for about a year, but when we went to China with school together we drifted apart (ironic, we're finally forced to be close and we drift) and so I got over him and we're just 'friends' (if that) now
    So it's all good=]

    And now I'm coming to terms with being gay=D
     
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    Her name's Courtney. When I started secondary school (so I was about 12) we were in a bunch of the same classes. I didn't like her much back then, but we were both real loners and ended up drifting together because we both really needed a friend. By the time a couple of months had passed, I'd forgotten that I used to dislike her, I'd found out that she was much sweeter and much nicer than anyone gave her credit for. She was and is drop-dead gorgeous, and the first really close and affectionate female friend I'd ever had. We're still friendly, although not close any more.
     
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    I had a crush on this girl on primary school... she is a total slut now unfortunatly....
     
  18. Ty

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    Ohhh god knows.. Ive never really had a crush on a guy, well, until now :s and even then its not really a crush. Maybe a tad bit of an obsession, but hey! Its not so bad :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    i had a crush on a girl in grade 2...but i think my first crush on a boy was when i was around 10 or 11. he was a really cute outgoing kid with light brown hair that was sort of too big. he had the reddest lips. i don't think i wanted to do anything with him, but i was sort of obsessed with being like him. we became really good friends and i always liked that he thought i was cool enough to hang out with him. my first real crush (with dirty thoughts) was a kid who was older than me and helped me in boy scouts :wink:
     
  20. I think the first crush i ever had was when i was about 10, i don't think i realised for a couple of years that it was a full blown crush but it was on this girl that i've neen friends with since pre-school. I think i realised that i was crushing on her when i was about 12. We ended up going out when we were 14 lol. But the first thing to ever make me go 'ooh, she's really got it going on...and she's a girl...' was the first time i saw Avril Lavignes 'Complicated' video, at the end where its almost the last shot in the video and she's looking straight into the camera with the face that just says ' pick me up and cuddle me' lol. I still like that video...