What do you consider to be unforgivable acts, whether it be in relationships or life in general. Happy days
I have way too long of a list. I can be a pretty dang vindictive person. I don't think most of it would be too unreasonable though; criminal acts being the most major ones, but I also have ones that go outside of that.
unforgivable is a hard word. I forgive easily but do not forget easily and start trusting people less if they do unjustified harm to me or other people. Having said that It really gets me mad when someone hurts my loved ones for any reason. And I can assure you that I can be really vindictive in that cases (thanks Fallingdown7 you taught me a new word hahaha). I am not talking about physical violence.,
Ignorance is annoying, but forgivable. Neglecting to learn something you're ignorant about when it's right in front of you, though... *shudder* I try to think of everything else as forgivable, though, given enough time.... though I'll admit it's going to be a REALLY long time before I fully forgive my abuser, even though I've made some progress.
Using someone despite the fact you know they're in a tough situation. Using someone's kind heartedness for your own gains. Hurting someone even when they show their pain
I don't believe in unforgivable. Oh, don't get me wrong, it can still take a LOT, to gain my forgiveness, perhaps more than is possible than a single lifetime, but nothing is unforgivable. To me, forgiveness is the greatest virtue of humanity, and to say that certain acts go beyond the grace of this virtue is... beyond pessimistic. Almost abhorent. The problem is that people don't understand what forgiveness is. It isn't blind accptance, to ignore the act or treat it as a dream, it isn't a lack of justice or to sit idle while havoc reins, it is to do what must be done and no more. To be hurt incredibly by somebody and be able to look in their eyes and tell them "I don't hate you," with pure honesty.
