Are gay guys more judgemental regarding penis size?

Eh, again something of preference. If you really love someone I would assume this wouldn't matter.... not saying I don't have my own preferences.

 

I don't care as long as it's not microscopic or a tree.

What's more of a deciding factor is the guy attached to it.

 

Eh I don't think you're going to be able to come to a conclusion on this one - well without putting together a survey through a university psych. department somewhere.

My best guess is that there's no significant difference from women that have sex with men, with perhaps men being slightly more insecure (but not much).


And do I care? Sure, aesthetically bigger is better, but in reality a good 90% of sizes work just fine for receptive anal sex (in which case bigger can often be worse, lol).

 

As long as it get's the job done. Obviously there are limits as to what I would want. So let's just say I don't want any trees.

 

I don't really care.

 

Like others say, it probably varies guy to guy. It may also vary with a given guy based on circumstances.

For me, penis size is a low priority. I'd be more worried about the guy its attached to. Even in the case of something casual, I'd be more worried about how comfortable I am with the guy than how big a bulge he has in his shorts.

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Obviously size is in the eyes of the beholder. But often size judgments aren't really quite right. For example, a lot of guys see porn, and think I'm not big enough. But porn stars are often over endowed. Real world guys are likely to be quite a bit smaller.

Even making size judgments on yourself can be difficult. I have read that many guys who are perfectly fine will feel inadequate after checking other guys out in a gym shower. (Not that anyone here would ever do such a thing. :lol

 

I think larger flaccid penises are more attractive, aesthetically. Larger erect penises slightly more attractive looking also but not sure about when actually having sex, guess it wouldn't make too much difference but I'm not so experienced there.

I wouldn't be massively bothered either way though, doubt it would ever be a dealbreaker.

 

Even that depends on the eyes of the beholder. I'll see a big dick, and think ! wow! But...as for aesthetics, I think something smaller (but not too small) usually looks better.

 

As long is it isn't a baby's thumb with a turtle neck on

 

You peeked? Bad boy! :eusa_naug

(Just kidding!)

As I said before, a lot of guys who are within the range of normal feel inadequate.

 

My butt is a delicate thing, so I want my partner to be smaller.

I want to feel a stretch, but I don't want to feel like I'm being torn apart.

 

The bigger ones are nice to look at, but the smaller-to-average sized ones are easier to do things with.

 

Female opinion warning!

I think dick size is just something a LOT of men get hung up over, gay or straight. When in reality most people worrying are probably average (porn isn't the best indicator of dick size). You might meet some guys that are size queens, but I honestly think the majority really don't care and you don't want a guy who makes you feel insecure or inferior to begin with

 

Couldn't agree more, not that I have any experience :lol:.

Porn does tend to ruin people; maybe we should kickstart a porn company that uses average guys :icon_wink.

 

I would think because both of them have penises that they wouldn't care and the guy that had the bigger one would top but I have seen in some amateurs the guy with the smaller one topping

 

Since I'm a butt virgin, I can't really say much about this. As some others have said, the bigger ones are more attractive to look at, but in reality it would probably cause bodily injury lol

 

according to my doctor, the average size is 5 inches. i like looking at those fire hoses on the porn films:eek: but realistically average or a little bit better would be more than sufficient. not that i have real world experience of course.

 

Depends who/where you ask.

It can get disheartening if you're looking on "dating" sites or apps where most of the (gay?) guys are looking for casual sex. You'll see a high percentage that care a LOT about the size downstairs.
Whether its aesthetics or whether it's because they're a bit too "stretched" to get much pleasure from smaller ones, I'm not sure. Probably depends on the person or might be a mixture of both.

In the real world though, for those who prefer quality over quantity, most gay guys will care more about the person it's attached to. Most guys on this website (including myself) I think would be this way inclined. Hope that's not too much of an assumption.

Peace!