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10th Aug 2008, 03:38 AM

I had the best dream last night!That's why I'm so happy today.I was engaged to a very hot guy with sky blue eyes...*melting*...And we kissed at least 5 times in mouth,and it was so real!The best part is that I didn't woke up,which is weird 'cause I wake up even if I try to get close to a guy,seems like he was trying to tell me something,but I didn't figure it out...
Guess I'll have what to do...
And yes,I wrote this because I wanted to make you all jealous

Paul_UK · 10th Aug 2008, 03:55 AM

Maybe it is a sign? I hope so, anyway.

It sounds like the dream needs to continue though, so you can find the answer. Enjoy!

ausdtc · 10th Aug 2008, 06:11 AM

I recall an extremely vivid dream like that a while back, not too long after I fell for the guy who forced me to finally admit to myself that I was queer! We woke up in one of those big bay windows, in each others arms, and just kissed and held each other. There was a sense of closeness that's probably more than I've ever felt in real life, and was easily the best dream I've *ever* had. I woke up on a natural high, a feeling that continued for quite a while!

Unfortunately there was never any follow on dreams from it, hopefully you have more luck :P

Wander · 10th Aug 2008, 08:57 AM

Look into lucid dreaming. If you can become aware that you're dreaming, you can control every part of your dream and cause old dreams to happen again.

**Lexington** · 10th Aug 2008, 09:49 AM

Because if they were real, we'd call them "reality".

I'm happy dreams aren't real. I'm sick of finding myself back in math class. In my underwear.

Lex

**Victor** · 10th Aug 2008, 10:47 AM

I'm sure many people have dreams that they wouldn't mind being real, but all of my dreams are just too unrealistic in one way or another.

If my dreams were real, I guess there would be more people on skates carrying around chainsaws.

Redemption 90 · 10th Aug 2008, 10:50 AM

Lucid dreams are the way to go. The health benefits of Lucid dreaming are endless, including acting out a fantasy to help improve mood when awake.

In fact, I am looking into it now!

10th Aug 2008, 10:52 AM

If it's real... then I probably wouldn't exist considering I don't remember ANY of my dreams. UGH

Tim · 10th Aug 2008, 10:58 AM

If dreams were real, there'd be some very weird things going on in the world. Namely things involving Sailor Moon <_< haha.

Lucid Dreaming? >_> I have issues remembering dreams, well, if I try to tell someone what they were about <_<

sdc91 · 10th Aug 2008, 01:50 PM

Um, well, if dreams were true, it'd be pretty screwed up for me.

I got a Lamborghini from a lawsuit last night. Don't ask me how.

10th Aug 2008, 02:10 PM

Ahhhhh.. talking bout dreams when i have really good ones when Im about to get to someone and mayb make out or something i wake up!

, every time something good is about to happen i wake up! why!!! ~_~

Absentminded · 10th Aug 2008, 05:23 PM

Lucid dreaming is kinda fun...

silentsound · 10th Aug 2008, 05:41 PM

I love dreams that feel really really real, especially semi-guilty fantasy dreams... oh thy are so sweet, and yet, so painful to wake up from...

Tim · 10th Aug 2008, 11:58 PM

So, I Had a Dream last night involving coming up with an idea for a TV show XD Technically it doesnt exist yet, so I won't say what it was about XD|

Well, that and trying to pitch it to a very secretive TV producer with 3 of my friends, they went Charlies Angels on him and tracked him through a mall :O

jony8472 · 11th Aug 2008, 12:16 AM

Dreams are not real because the dream fairy has a very sick sense of humour.

However, I guess it's good dreams aren't real... I mean they give us something to aspire to, a drive in life (among other things)

And it would be very scary if all dreams were real...

ok455 · 11th Aug 2008, 09:31 PM

I had a dream i was married to this girl i used to work with we never got along and we was looking at houses

heatqueen · 12th Aug 2008, 04:53 AM

Ahhh I love dreams in which I get to kiss someone hot...

I think Katherine Moennig was in my dream once...*drool*

Trumpetplyer23 · 12th Aug 2008, 05:23 AM

Meh, well...all of my dreams are really weird, and, according to one of those dream dictonairy things, all thinly laced sexual references.

12th Aug 2008, 07:59 AM

Unlike most of my dreams mine aren't sexual really...I just dream about me holding someone in my arms type of stuff...which hopefully isn't too far away in reality.

15th Aug 2008, 06:08 AM

Dreams are a very important part of our psyche,in other words,those are the thoughts of our mind.Some can be real,but there is always something weird...the real things represent the things we can't change while the weird things represent something we should think about.
It sometimes happen that I hear a song in a dream and when I wake up,I realize it is the song I know but I didn't know it in my dream,that means I like that song very much...
Anyway,don't read this,you'll get confused...

10th Aug 2008, 03:38 AM	#1
berileos Guest Posts: n/a	Why aren't dreams real? I had the best dream last night!That's why I'm so happy today.I was engaged to a very hot guy with sky blue eyes...melting...And we kissed at least 5 times in mouth,and it was so real!The best part is that I didn't woke up,which is weird 'cause I wake up even if I try to get close to a guy,seems like he was trying to tell me something,but I didn't figure it out... Guess I'll have what to do... And yes,I wrote this because I wanted to make you all jealous

10th Aug 2008, 03:55 AM	#2
Paul_UK Former Empty Closets Admin Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Bournemouth, UK Age: 47 Posts: 13,155 Join Date: Nov 2004	Re: Why aren't dreams real? Maybe it is a sign? I hope so, anyway. It sounds like the dream needs to continue though, so you can find the answer. Enjoy! __________________ Paul

10th Aug 2008, 06:11 AM	#3
ausdtc Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Brisbane, Australia Age: 26 Posts: 189 Join Date: May 2008	Re: Why aren't dreams real? I recall an extremely vivid dream like that a while back, not too long after I fell for the guy who forced me to finally admit to myself that I was queer! We woke up in one of those big bay windows, in each others arms, and just kissed and held each other. There was a sense of closeness that's probably more than I've ever felt in real life, and was easily the best dream I've ever had. I woke up on a natural high, a feeling that continued for quite a while! Unfortunately there was never any follow on dreams from it, hopefully you have more luck :P

10th Aug 2008, 08:57 AM	#4
Wander Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Parents, aunts, grandma, counselor, online friends Location: Central Alabama Age: 18 Posts: 2,360 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: Why aren't dreams real? Look into lucid dreaming. If you can become aware that you're dreaming, you can control every part of your dream and cause old dreams to happen again.

10th Aug 2008, 09:49 AM	#5
Lexington The gay gargoyle EC Advisor Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Colorado Age: 42 Posts: 12,370 Join Date: Dec 2007	Re: Why aren't dreams real? Because if they were real, we'd call them "reality". I'm happy dreams aren't real. I'm sick of finding myself back in math class. In my underwear. Lex

10th Aug 2008, 10:47 AM	#6
Victor Moo EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Pretty damn out Location: California Age: 21 Posts: 1,970 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: Why aren't dreams real? I'm sure many people have dreams that they wouldn't mind being real, but all of my dreams are just too unrealistic in one way or another. If my dreams were real, I guess there would be more people on skates carrying around chainsaws.

10th Aug 2008, 10:50 AM	#7
Redemption 90 Newbie Regular Member Gender: Male Posts: 3 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: Why aren't dreams real? Lucid dreams are the way to go. The health benefits of Lucid dreaming are endless, including acting out a fantasy to help improve mood when awake. In fact, I am looking into it now!

10th Aug 2008, 10:52 AM	#8
GunStarre Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Why aren't dreams real? If it's real... then I probably wouldn't exist considering I don't remember ANY of my dreams. UGH

10th Aug 2008, 10:58 AM	#9
Tim Psycho Glitter Btch Full Member Gender:* Guy, Unless Life Was a Horrible April Fools Joke. Orientation: Gay/Asexual/Confusing to Explain Out Status: Armed and Fabulous! XD Location: California Age: 23 Posts: 7,379 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: Why aren't dreams real? If dreams were real, there'd be some very weird things going on in the world. Namely things involving Sailor Moon <_< haha. Lucid Dreaming? >_> I have issues remembering dreams, well, if I try to tell someone what they were about <_< __________________ Rawr! :3 ~The Stalker User Known As Tim~ Rawr! :3 EC's Sailor Star Healer, Oxymoron and All. Star Sensitive Inferno! Sailor Starlight, Stage On! [Vic] 7:49 pm: I keep my pants off in public.

10th Aug 2008, 01:50 PM	#10
sdc91 Coop d'état Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Berlin, Germany Age: 21 Posts: 1,607 Join Date: Nov 2007	Re: Why aren't dreams real? Um, well, if dreams were true, it'd be pretty screwed up for me. I got a Lamborghini from a lawsuit last night. Don't ask me how. __________________

10th Aug 2008, 02:10 PM	#11
EthanS Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Why aren't dreams real? Ahhhhh.. talking bout dreams when i have really good ones when Im about to get to someone and mayb make out or something i wake up! , every time something good is about to happen i wake up! why!!! ~_~

10th Aug 2008, 05:23 PM	#12
Absentminded EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: I'm a ladies kind of guy ;) Out Status: I flirt in public. Take a guess ;) Location: Vermont Age: 19 Posts: 546 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: Why aren't dreams real? Lucid dreaming is kinda fun...

10th Aug 2008, 05:41 PM	#13
silentsound Flaming Thespian Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: most people Age: 18 Posts: 2,253 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: Why aren't dreams real? I love dreams that feel really really real, especially semi-guilty fantasy dreams... oh thy are so sweet, and yet, so painful to wake up from... __________________ ...and I can't wait to figure out what's *wrong* with me, so I can say 'this is the way I [used] to be'

10th Aug 2008, 11:58 PM	#14
Tim Psycho Glitter Btch Full Member Gender:* Guy, Unless Life Was a Horrible April Fools Joke. Orientation: Gay/Asexual/Confusing to Explain Out Status: Armed and Fabulous! XD Location: California Age: 23 Posts: 7,379 Join Date: Mar 2008	Re: Why aren't dreams real? So, I Had a Dream last night involving coming up with an idea for a TV show XD Technically it doesnt exist yet, so I won't say what it was about XD\| Well, that and trying to pitch it to a very secretive TV producer with 3 of my friends, they went Charlies Angels on him and tracked him through a mall :O __________________ Rawr! :3 ~The Stalker User Known As Tim~ Rawr! :3 EC's Sailor Star Healer, Oxymoron and All. Star Sensitive Inferno! Sailor Starlight, Stage On! [Vic] 7:49 pm: I keep my pants off in public.

11th Aug 2008, 12:16 AM	#15
jony8472 Take care all=} Full Member Gender: Male Out Status: Most everyone knows =] Location: Bath, UK Age: 19 Posts: 201 Join Date: Jul 2008	Re: Why aren't dreams real? Dreams are not real because the dream fairy has a very sick sense of humour. However, I guess it's good dreams aren't real... I mean they give us something to aspire to, a drive in life (among other things) And it would be very scary if all dreams were real... __________________ Take care all=} K thx Baizz!!

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11th Aug 2008, 09:31 PM	#16
ok455 EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Can't tell L!O!L Age: 24 Posts: 437 Join Date: May 2005	Re: Why aren't dreams real? I had a dream i was married to this girl i used to work with we never got along and we was looking at houses __________________ http://209.50.252.116/smile.gif

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heatqueen Official #1 fan of Celine Dion Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Pansexual/Homoromantic bisexual Out Status: Generally whoever asks Location: I travel a lot Age: 20 Posts: 5,703 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: Why aren't dreams real? Ahhh I love dreams in which I get to kiss someone hot... I think Katherine Moennig was in my dream once...drool __________________ Don't drink and drive. You might hit a bump and spill your drink. Co-founder of the 'Sailor Moon Made Me Gay' club...and the lesbians.

12th Aug 2008, 07:59 AM	#19
BitterEdge Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Why aren't dreams real? Unlike most of my dreams mine aren't sexual really...I just dream about me holding someone in my arms type of stuff...which hopefully isn't too far away in reality.

15th Aug 2008, 06:08 AM	#20
berileos Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Why aren't dreams real? Dreams are a very important part of our psyche,in other words,those are the thoughts of our mind.Some can be real,but there is always something weird...the real things represent the things we can't change while the weird things represent something we should think about. It sometimes happen that I hear a song in a dream and when I wake up,I realize it is the song I know but I didn't know it in my dream,that means I like that song very much... Anyway,don't read this,you'll get confused...