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Are there a good amount of men out there who are mostly tops?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Wuggums47, May 24, 2014.

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Top, bottom or neither?

  1. I'm a top

    9 vote(s)
    15.8%

  2. I'm a bottom

    16 vote(s)
    28.1%

  3. I'm Versatile

    28 vote(s)
    49.1%

  4. None of the above.

    4 vote(s)
    7.0%
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  1. Wuggums47

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    I'm kind of curious as to how many gay guys out there are tops compared to bottoms, I've posted a poll to go with it.

    Edit: kind of occurs to me I might have asked in the wrong section, this should be in sexual health I think. If someone could move it that would be nice.
     
    #1 Wuggums47, May 24, 2014
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  2. QueerTransEnby

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    I've only bottomed.
     
    #2 QueerTransEnby, May 24, 2014
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    There seem to be more bottoms out there, again confirming several stereotypes...
     
    #3 gravechild, May 24, 2014
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    I preferring bottoming (and selected that in the poll), but I am technically versatile.
     
    #4 stillhidden, May 24, 2014
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    I'm vers, but mostly top since my bf is a total bottom
     
    #5 Jared, May 24, 2014
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    Whatever happens happens lmao
     
    #6 JStevens96, May 24, 2014
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    ehhh i always felt more of the top....i do not know why though....most guys i've been with have prefered to bottom.... as far as i know, i think i might be vers.....really depends on the guy.
     
    #7 Bolt35, May 24, 2014
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    Most guys I've encountered are versatile--why limit yourself?
     
    #8 OGS, May 24, 2014
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    Mostly top...right person I might try bottoming.
     
    #9 tscott, May 24, 2014
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    I have yet to cross that bridge, but have always had an idealized version of dating where the relationship is equal in both the bedroom and boardroom (er... public).
     
    #10 AlamoCity, May 24, 2014
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    I'm mostly a top. I just... don't have a high tolerance for pain. :confused:
     
    #11 Skaros, May 24, 2014
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    Shouldn't be painful if you do it right....
     
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    I put Vers.... reason being, I have never done anything, I think I have a preference to bottom though (tmi lol) Whenever I imagine any sexual situation that is always where I place myself.
     
    #13 Jethro702, May 24, 2014
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    None of the above.

    Even having not done either, neither is something I really give thought to or care about to bother having an idea.
     
    #14 C P, May 24, 2014
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    I'm a vers, either way is fine with me.
     
    #15 BryanM, May 24, 2014
  16. Fallingdown7

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    Not a guy, but I've always wondered this myself, seeing so many gay bottoms recently. I also wonder if there are any straight/bi guys that prefer or are exclusive bottoms.
     
    #16 Fallingdown7, May 24, 2014
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    Receptive anal intercourse doesn't hurt if done correctly.

    Why would we allow penetration if it hurt us?
     
    #17 Pret Allez, May 24, 2014
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    This bi male prefers bottoming. Exclusively? No, only been in one relationship, and I did try topping once.
     
    #18 QueerTransEnby, May 25, 2014
  19. Wuggums47

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    I find people of any gender to be attractive, and personally prefer to bottom. But I feel like a big part of love is sacrifice, and I'd be willing to do nothing but top for the rest of my life if my partner really hated topping.
     
    #19 Wuggums47, May 25, 2014
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    I'm pretty much a bottom. I've heard that among gay/bi guys there are more bottoms than tops.
     
    #20 yidnah87, May 25, 2014
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