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I skipped the rebellious stage.

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by JayR, May 29, 2014.

  1. JayR

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    Am i the only one? I've always been the good guy and the responsible son. It's not that i wanna change that, i just wanna hear your thoughts. :slight_smile:
     
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    I skipped it and then I relapsed--my twenties were wild. I'm so glad I did it when I could--and that I survived it. There's still time!
     
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    Oh gosh! I was a TOTAL rebel! It's getting me kicked out of the house for it, but most of it was fun :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: I do regret quite a bit of it though...
    I think it's good you haven't gone through it. It can be quite damaging to many of your relationships...you stay golden, Ponyboy :wink:
     
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    Really, you skipped it, didnt think you could lol but mine are, well now and pretty fun im not that wild llike stealing cars and picking fights lol
     
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    I pretty much skipped the rebellious stage, too. Well, sorta. I'm the queen of passive aggressiveness among everyone who knows me. However, a rare instance of snark and my general passive aggressive tendencies pretty much sum up my rebellious phase.
     
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    Nope, I missed mine too. It's sort of there now instead, latent. But nothing I'd really put into action.
     
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    Eh. What constitutes a rebel phase.
     
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    I didn't think I was too rebellious except for looking at gay porn and getting toys shipped to our house when our parents were on vacation when I lived with them(my dad found the receipt, but it was general "straight toys"). :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: I think when I come out to my parents, they will look at it is being the most rebellious thing I've done. I just have a feeling they won't get it.
     
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    The only really rebellious thing I did was tell my dad to "shut the f*** up" one time when I was like 14. He totally deserved it, but he kicked me out of the truck...
    After that, I had no problem speaking my mind to him.
    Haven't done any drinking or drugs though... I just have no desire, really.
     
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    Yeah, I skipped it too. So you're not the only one. Had a lot of problems at home with my mother being bipolar and having depression. I guess I figured our family had enough problems? (Everything is more or less fine now) I'm interested to know if there was a cause behind your lack of rebellion too, or if it was more of a random thing.
     
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    17 years old; never dated/kissed/had sex, the only member of my family who's never had a drug/alcohol problem (kiss my ass, Rush Limbaugh), homeschooled/sheltered lifestyle (although I still wouldn't have underage sex or do any kind of drug, no matter what my school situation is)...

    Pretty rebellious in other ways, but when it comes to sex/drugs/violence, I'm the lesbian Mother Teresa.
     
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    This is me too, only my rebelling was concentrated from like age 19 to... not all that long ago actually. Kind of shocked I lived through it, and that I made it through relatively unscathed.
     
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    I guess it's a random thing. I'm contented of what i am right now, and i don't wanna complicate things.
     
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    I don't know whether I've skipped it or if it's just coming on late, but I haven't caused any issues so far. I've never cussed at my parents (and I don't typically cuss in general), I still wear my DARE bracelet, and my idea of fun on prom night is playing tag in Walmart at 1 AM.

    I'll have to see how I do during college this next year, though.
     
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    I'm not sure if I ever entered a rebellious phase, because I've never really given much thought to what my mother says or does, and I can't say that she has ever yielded much power or control over what I do, or if I entered a rebellious phase when I was 12 and it's still ongoing now. Even before then, I never really did as I was told, partly because I knew she rarely followed through with discipline - at worst, I'd get sent to my room and that was it, and that never bothered me.

    Still, my relationship with her went south pretty quickly when I started high school, and since then I've pretty much done whatever I please, and her disapproval really means nothing to me at all. Now that I'm 18, she doesn't care as much - I'm legally an adult so have the freedom to go wherever I want and do whatever I want, and she has no legal authority over me whatsoever. I earn my own money and pay my own way, so she has no financial strings to pull either (not that she would be in a position to do that anyway).

    Plus, I pay the rent on the place we live in, since she's currently unemployed, and isn't even looking for work right now (she is 'on sick' apparently), but I digress (any excuse to vent, I guess).
     
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    I would say that I've skipped it for the most part, as I've always had a really good relationship with my parents and I usually don't see any reason to not listen to whatever they tell me to do. Although, I have done some of the typical "rebellious teen stuff" (drink, smoked weed), but that's honestly a rare thing.
     
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    Watch out - you just might end up one of those fifty year old men going through half life crises and spending all their money on Ferraris and partying. :dry:
     
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    Hahahahah. I'm still waiting.
     
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    You poor thing. What do you have to live for? Me, I've always been a rebel.
     
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    I've yet to get to that stage too.
    I'm 18 and haven't hit the rebellious stage, I think it's because I've got nobody to rebell with :grin:.
    I have urges almost everyday to just go out and go wild for a night.