When with a partner, how are fetishes in the bedroom addressed? Or preferences in the bedroom addressed? I only have had about 3 sexual experiences with the same sex, I definitely feel more comfortable & pleasured with the same sex but we just went with the flow. So pardon me for asking such a noob-like question, but how are these preferences in the bedroom even brought up with out looking like a "creep" or making things awkward?
Glad somebody asked the question. My friend with benefits and I tried different stuff long before anal. Because he was the one who initiated the play in the first place, he took the dominant top role. Because of my family history being even more prudish than his, I let him take the lead even though I was slightly older. Just kind of happened. He blindfolded me once, and I went insane with pleasure.
I think it just happens in random conversation. Sometimes even my straight friends and I talk about our fetishes if we feel that close. I definitely wouldn't want to sleep with someone before they knew what I even liked!
Yeah, I feel like it just kind of happens in a conversation. I'm a really straight forward person though so I'm just like "Let's talk about turn ons" and stuff like that.
Yes, getting tied up really turns me on too, but there would have to be trust there. That's not a hookup deal. lol. I don't get into leather, ball gags, chastity stuff, and whips though. So medium bdsm I guess. Would love to have a sex machine do me too even if it was just once in my life. lol.
