Guys what do u prefer?

Eh. I can go either way. Just depends. But older guys over twinks, for sure.

 

Masculine guy open to all possibilities. LOL. Sometimes, the line between masculine and feminine guys is thin anyways. Skinny guy that is in shape but doesn't have chiseled abs but knows how to cook for example. I know a guy like this, yet he isn't flamboyant. He is my gay friend's boyfriend. Labels don't describe some people. If he were to be available, I wouldn't turn him down. Let's put it that way.

 

Thanks for making this. I'm really excited to see how it goes....

 

I agree with this. I mean, I can cook, clean, do general repairs, am not flamboyant, don't have a twink body, love to fish and be outdoors, etc. so I have characteristics that are considered "feminine" and "masculine," though I'd still label myself as "masculine."

That said, I prefer someone who is well-rounded but also falls in the "masculine" camp. I know labels can pigeonhole people so I don't dwell too much on them, but I do have a preference for "masculine" men.

 

I'm a fem who generally likes other fems. I can find masculine guys attractive as well, but usually I get along better with other fems.

 

By looks, I am definitely not feminine, but I am very much in tune with my emotions and the emotions of others. I've been a supportive person to many people, which gets me taken advantage of sometimes. As I have said on here before, the co-dependent people are drawn to me like honey. This has been both guys and girls because I do have a caring heart.

 

We're spot on here. When people ask me about my kids in line at the grocery store and kids are the last thing I want, I guess they think, based on appearances, I must be totally straight. Whatever. But when people scratch beneath the surface, there are things that would throw them off, like neatness, having a good sense of style, and some other things along the same lines. But, yes, I've worked on my cars, taken down trees, dress in jeans and a casual shirt when not in work clothing, and am just a regular guy.

So, no apologies, I like the same type, more or less, and I wind up befriending the same type. And, if guys are masculine but are also dolts and follow the checklist of what guys SHOULD be like, they're not likely to be someone I'll ever know. No thanks. Life experience has proven that.

A friend of mine, mentioned in a thread somewhere for being a great friend but a flake, said that, with every G/B guy who is masculine, there is always something that gives it away as he was blowing out cigarette smoke. I can see that. I've seen some old photos of Rock Hudson, who was a giant of a man, with small dogs!

 

Thanks. :icon_bigg

 

I'm not really masculine or feminine, and my boyfriend is pretty feminine.

I'm not attracted to flamboyancy, whether it be very masculine or very feminine, but masculinity vs femininity in guys isn't really a concern for me.

 

I'm neither masculine or feminine, and I'd be fine dating either.

 

I have some masc characteristics with some fem characteristics. But if one would just look at me and not look deeper, they would probably assume I'm straight; therefore, I think I would fall into the masc category. That being said, I do not feel masc or fem; I am me. As for what I go for, I am just a dude with a caring and loving personality so I could really care less the type of person I end up with. If I love them and they love me and the chemistry is there, this masc or fem thing would be at the very back of my mind.

 

"Oh, wow. We haven't had one of these threads in ages..."

Interestingly enough, as with the vast majority posters in this thread, my preferences haven't changed at any point during the last week. I still do not give even the slightest fuck.

 

I guess I'm pretty masculine but then again I know 2-3 Lana del Rey songs.

 

This is cool. However, attracting co-dependent types is not really beneficial. I have shed friends who either had this issue or had boundary issues. I have fewer friends as a result, but I'm better off for it. They were gone before it got to the stage that they could even take advantage of me.

What this might be called is being sensitive. It's an admirable trait. Unfortunately, we live in a society that scoffs at that when it is applied to men. A caring heart is a good thing. And one can be a guy who looks like a caveman and have a caring heart or be a guy who is waif like who has anything but. So, it should be evaluated as a quality in and of itself, and not attached to genders.

 

I won't rule out many people immediately, but I tend to like the femme types.