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Gay/lesbian vibe ??

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by MyLittleWorld, Jun 1, 2014.

  1. MyLittleWorld

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    I heard a lot of people telling that gay people give off some kind of aura, I don't get it because, for now I don't have a gaydar or maybe it's just too weak :eusa_doh:

    So anyway, do you think it's a real thing related with "gaydar" or just excogitation?
     
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    Yeah, I don't understand the whole 'Gaydar' thing either. The only way I'd be able to guess is if the person seemed to have an attraction that isn't straight.
     
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    Normally with things like this I'd write it off as unrealistic. However, I do think some people have a 'gaydar', so to speak. I think I have one myself, and definitely get that vibe when I know someone is gay. I've been accurate with it as well, scarily :lol: The only person who I just can't tell yes or no is my best friend/my crush, of all people :eusa_doh:
     
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    Nods. Me too. Long, old gaydar, but it's never ever let me down. Except I didn't know about myself lol
     
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    I think gaydar is definitely a thing. Back in the day mine was sharp like you wouldn't believe. It's still pretty good but I think for me it doesn't matter as much as it used to--possibly because I'm partnered up--so it has sort of grown dull with disuse.
     
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    I think there are some ways people can tell, like seeing who they check out and if they are flirtatious around the same sex but I think there is only one way to be sure and that's to ask them.
    The whole gaydar thing can sometimes be based stereotypes and behavior. I don't think you can just look at someone and tell.
     
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    I'll go one step further and say good gaydar can even, in some cases, spot people who haven't quite figured it out themselves (or are still in denial)...