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Should I tell him what I feel about him?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by edy, Jun 7, 2014.

  1. edy

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    I came to the conclusion that it's almost impossible to know a guy's sexuality unless you ask him so I always try to be open with the boys I like. I've told everyone of them that I like them or if they want to date me, except in one occasion and I still regret it

    Now I have a crush on a guy from school that shows no interest whatsoever, but I feel like this particular guy doesn't use words that much

    What do you think? Should I try a little bit more? Should I give up? How should I tell him? We are friends on facebook
     
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    You should try to be better with him and if you're not talking try it, you don't have anything to lose, am I right? :grin: Then you'll know is he gay or not. If he doesn't declare you can ask him if you're comfortable with it. :slight_smile:
     
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    Since you are out, just tell him that you are gay and you would like to go out to dinner/movie/whatever with him on _____ if he is free. He can say yay or nay without having to declare anything about himself in so many words.
     
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    hey guys these are very advices thank you, he actually invited me to go out with him and didn't call, he gave an explanation later. I stopped talking to him , I was so pissed off what should I do?
     
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    He invited you like on date? :grin: If he gave you a reasonable explanation you should make such a deal about it. You say just you're okay but you'd like to know when he can't come.
     
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    Well it wasn't a romantic date (I WISH!) but he invited me to celebrate his birthday. Apparently his buddies "kidnaped" him and he couldn't tell me where the party was, and I haven't talked to him ever since lol
     
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    Lol and when that was? You should give him a chance maybe he didn't lied to you. :dry:
     
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    A week ago, I was so furious that I made a controversial thread in this forum lol
     
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    I think you shouldn't be so furious about it if he doesn't lie, of course :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: