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Do you have abs?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Lukas17, Jun 7, 2014.

  1. Lukas17

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    This is mostly for guys because it's kinda unusual and rare to see a girl with abs. So my question is do you have abs and do you think it's important to have it to be handsome?
     
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    yes but a thick layer of fat is overlaing said abs ergo they're not toned. Abs have a quality of making a man handsome but it's just a contributing factor and is not the sole determinant. That's my view anyway
     
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    No, I have a gut.

    Personally, I like guys who have flat bellies, but don't have the whole "ripped, washboard 6-pack." I think that's the problem with the media is that they want you to think that if you ever want someone to be attracted to you that you have to look like Arnold Schwarzenegger shirtless.

    In other words, this is what I like in terms of abs:

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    And this really doesn't interest me all that much:

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    Same :lol:.

    Personally, abs look nice on a guy, but I prefer a man to be "thick."
     
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    No, really no lol
     
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    No, I don't, but I am slowly working on it. I've dropped 25 pounds in the last year and slowly working on it. But I am doing it for me and not for anyone else.. I'll never be "hot" but having a nice bod can't hurt...
     
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    I'm with AwesomGaytheist - I think both images are attractive, but there is such a thing as 'too ripped'. I like lean but toned guys - most swimmers have that kind of body.

    As for the question - I feel weird answering, but yeah, my abs are visible. They weren't always, but I lost weight over the past year. I'm 145 pounds at just under 5'10. I'm pretty happy with how I look.
     
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    No I'm not

    I love ripped abs, they are so sexy but useless (what are they for exactly?) lol! my exboyfriend used to have but we broke up before I could lick them :frowning2:
     
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    There plenty of girls with abs, but they're mostly fitness models.

    I don't have abs, but I'm trying. I don't feel its what make you handsome, but sexy :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I don't have a rock hard six pack but I'm trying to get more toned and be in better shape. It all really comes down to preference because not everyone thinks it's attractive. I'm not much for the ripped look on others but that's me
     
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    Yes, great body =/= handsome lol
     
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    I had a much more toned pack in high school. Now, they are there but under some fat. LOL. I've lost some weight and hope to be seeing more of them soon.
     
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    Not yet but I'm really just trying to get a flat belly. If I do suck in my gut and flex I can see the top two but that's all right now, haha.

    In terms of whether I like a guy or not if they have abs, it doesn't really matter but I won't lie and say it isn't a plus.
     
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    No, I don't have abs, but I'm doing a lot of work to lose weight, so who knows? Maybe I'll have them at some point in the not-too-distant future...

    But no, I don't think abs are required to look good, and I agree with everyone saying that there is such a thing as "to ripped."
     
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    I actually have like the top one (except I am biologically female, so I have a waist), a little insulation. I don't work out at all, just build muscle easily and have a fast metabolism.

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    By the way, you are all handsome/ beautiful. Focus on health, not whether or not you have muscle lumps on your abdomen.
     
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    yes, I have!... on my car :roflmao:
     
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    I agree with the awesomegaytheist too. I was talking with one of my female friends about what I found hot. A quick google of shirtless guy later I showed her similar pics.

    As far as me having abs? No, since I went from driving a truck to stacking boxes I have lost over 150 lbs. My entire body is at the point where I am still fat but you can tell I'm fit underneath. I still have small 'man boobs' but they are more saggy because of the weight loss, yet you still see the outline of my pectoral muscles under them. My stomach is the same way I still have a gut which is more saggy skin from weight loss but I'm getting where you can see the outline of my abs.

    I have went from size 50 jeans down to size 38 I'm getting there but I really don't want to be ripped.
     
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    I dont have them. Im like Santa and have a bowl full of jelly.

    In fact I dont find abs or muscles attractive at all.
     
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    Lots of girls have abs- My sister has abs of steel (mostly because she planks when she's bored :roflmao: I think that's really strange..) and I do know a girl with a six pack...
     
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    I have a flat belly, but have never had the "ravioli chunk" or "washboard" kind of abs. I like that lean defined ab look, but if you don't have the right genetic geometry, you will not have a washboard no matter how lean and fat-free you get. Look, enjoy, but don't obsess about it.