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How old were you when you realized your sexuality?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by desiringshadows, Jun 8, 2014.

  1. desiringshadows

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    I'm still questioning mine. I know I'm Asexual but that's about it. :tears:

    & if a thread answering my topic question was already made, can someone direct me to it? Because I obviously haven't found it :help:


    thanks :slight_smile:
     
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    I think I was 5 or 6 years old, there was an ad promoting skates and I loved the young actor, I used to find him so attractive when I didn't even know what attractive meant. And every time I saw a hot guy in television I used to feel something underneath my pants lol
     
  3. Fallingdown7

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    14 when I came out as bi
    19 when I came out as gay
     
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    Well that's a tough question for me due to my hormones being irregular because of my disease for a long time... But I have been questioning since I was maybe 16. I didn't start actually pursuing or trying anything until I was 21, when I met other gay co workers. I realized I had this odd attraction to a couple of them, and I just wanted to hug them or spend time with them.
     
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    I changed my mind a lot about my orientation until I realized I was gay at 15
     
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    Thought I was bi when I was 12, discovered I'm gay this year
     
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    Realized I was bisexual when I was 12.
     
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    I haven't declared anything because I don't want to shut myself off in case I change my mind (i don't think I will) but I've known since this year.(14) :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Fourteen years and two months. I can remember the date.

    That's when I acknowledged it. As is many people's experience, I always knew I was gay, even if I didn't apply the word to it.
     
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    In fifth grade, I was sort of infatuated with a (male) classmate. I think I knew I was gay since early on (or, the fact that I liked guys). I didn't have a defining moment where I realized what my sexuality was, but I slowly accepted it. Can't really come up with a specific date.
     
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    I always had a feeling I was. Even since kindergarden.

    But I'd say I was about 13/14, when I told myself "ok, I'm definitely not straight".
     
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    It's hard to say. I didn't really think anything of it but I suppose I fully recognized my sexuality as my sexuality when I was 14.
     
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    I realized when I was 14. But I didn't realize it on my own, it was indirectly revealed to me.

    But unlike others in this thread, it wasn't something I knew all my life but just didn't label until then. The thought of being with a man instead of a woman never even crossed my mind. Looking back, there were definitely instances where I became interested in certain guys, but I guess the idea that I was going to develop an interest with women or end up with a woman was drilled so deep into my head that I kinda just disregarded those incidents...
     
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    I realized I liked guys at 12 going on 13.I realized at aroun 14 that I didn't like girls.
     
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    21 I realized I'm into guys.
     
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    I wish I knew. I met my future husband at 19, we've been together 16 years, married 3 and I still feel I dont know who I am. Perhaps that explains why I am up at 5am and should probably be sleeping before work.......at least I know I'm gay. I also know I'm Irish and have plenty/too much Irish Catholic guilt
     
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    I had strong homosexual feelings as a young girl and began to understand them at about age twelve.
     
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    I knew I wasn't straight at 15...
    Didn't really accept it until this year (19)