romantic stuff with you friends

I did once and I got attached to him and it went downhill and its ended with me hating him >___<

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but im not saying I wouldn't again ^.^

---------- Post added 16th Jun 2014 at 09:14 PM ----------

but im not saying I wouldn't again ^.^

 

I wouldn't initiate it myself, but if he wanted it, then sure. Friends with benefits are always a fun thing. I think it actually makes the friendship better, because once you've gone as far as having sex with each other, then all other minor inhibitions that might have existed during the friendship disappear. You become more "free" with each other.

If it was a girl though, then I'd have to limit it to the occasional drunken one night stand.

 

it has happened I Was single at the time and he'd dumped his latest anyway we were both a little down in the dumps and I guess we were both saying the right things anyway the comforting got a little out of hand(*hug*):icon_redf. happened few times still mates.

 

Never, I have no interest in experimenting with people

 

No I wouldn't jeopardize a friendship to experiment.

 

It can be very risky....
Then again, a good relationship is helped if you are friends too.....hard to call....
I would say communication is vital..

 

It could go either way and probably depends a lot on the people involved. Indulging curiosities is how my boyfriend and I ended up together. But at the same time, I'm sure it COULD ruin a friendship. I'd say take it on a case by case basis.

 

My friends basically feel like family so I couldn't do it. I'm going through my mental lists of all my friends and everyone I'm close to, I can't imagine it without being weirded out.

 

That's one of my main fantasies, so yes.

 

Not unless I had feelings for her. If it were only a friendship, no.

 

Me and one of my besties are friends with benefits and it's not awkward at all

 

No, all my friends are male or married with children.

If they were a really good friend I doubt I would, even if they were female. Not worth the risk of losing such a friendship.

I will avoid such pain at all costs at this point in life.

 

Depends. My ex-best friend who is straight and in a relationship tried to kiss me while drunk a couple weeks ago after about a month of asking me if I was "hot enough" for her. I told her no and that I was insulted in being her girl toy, lol. But I do have one girl friend who is bisexual with a boyfriend, and if she ever wanted to mess around then I'd consider it. But I think that's because she's bi. I think I probably wouldn't do anything with a straight girl. Not safe for my emotions.

 

I've been offered twice... I turned them both down.. Hell, just being attracted to one of my best friends ruined most of our friendship and things are STILL awkward.

It's only a good idea if both you and your friend are strong enough to handle it... I personally wouldn't advocate it.

 

I don't really hold sex as something intrinsically valuable; I'm open to it. And it's not like friendship is a piece of delicate glass that can't handle sex without breaking.

Love and romantic feelings, on the other hand, are more risky than just sex.

 

I'm not really a huge fan of sex or touching or anything romantic but THAT ASIDE

I have a couple of friends I trust enough to consider doing favors for if they asked nicely

 

No, I would only ruin the friendship if I knew she really liked me and I liked her back.

 

I have no real interest in sexual experimentation.

 

It seems like a recipe for disaster. I don't think I'd do it unless there was an indication that it could seriously develop into something more. I'm not really interested in becoming physical with someone that I'm not also romantically involved with, though. I think the feelings would be too hard to separate.