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What traits or qualities do you wish you had more of?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by RayXxx, Jun 18, 2014.

  1. RayXxx

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    For me, I wish I had more confidence to be myself in front of others, and confidence in general. I wish I could speak out against the wrong misconceptions that people have about me, but I usually stay really quiet while their unintential words sometimes crush me.

    So what about your selves as individuals, what do you wish you had more of?
     
  2. Fallingdown7

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    I wish I had calmness and forgiveness, I fear I can be too angry and resentful at times.
     
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    stamina and getting things done on time
     
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    Confidence, more outgoing, calmness, wisdom, focus, no procrastination, no mood swings, etc...
     
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    Confidence definitely
     
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    patience, discipline
     
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    Confidence and self control.
     
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    Motivation and self discipline. I have a huge list of tasks that I need to complete (some, days ago) but as usual the deadlines have slipped. That's why I was a lousy student.
     
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    Confidence. I'm definitely too quite and I know I am but I have a hard time speaking up and being myself. Especially around new people.
     
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    Well as for personality traits I would wish I had:
    Motivation, self-discipline, courage, confidence, patience and the ability to stick to something (as in not leave stuff unfinished)

    As for physical traits, I wish I had:
    The sexiness and was less prone to acne...

    Other than that I have no real issues with who I am :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I wish I was more selfless, and had more willpower.
     
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    More self confidence, more outgoing and open towards others, No extreme mood swings, less procrastination, better Management for All things and more ambition and Engagement.

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    And Maybe a better handling With critics.
     
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    Having an intelligent brain and being clever
     
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    I wish I was more outgoing.
     
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    The main thing I wish I had was more confidence.

    I feel like I could be and do a lot more if I just had more confidence in myself.
     
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    Discipline and focus. I used to be a hard-working person... i don't know where all of that went...
     
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    I wish I could draw and paint.
     
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    More outgoing. I'm too shy around new people. And Probably a little more kindness. And being good with little kids. I'm not hardly at all good with them.:bang:
     
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    Trust... I don't trust anyone... in some cases even myself.

    Also on another note, I wish I am less lazy and proud. Working on them tho'.
     
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    to be less apologetic...period

    I love me, I love my opinions but I am too scared of the court of public opinion