Theories

Because we have to live with our parents possible disappointment for the rest of their lives. We can find new friends. Because we've formed a different kind of bond with our parents.

 

Because some parents want to rig their childrens' life.

 

Pretty much what Hecagon said

 

Because talking about sexuality isn't awkward with friends.

 

Also, especially for younger people, you may still have a greater dependence on your parents and the result of a negative reaction has the potential to be more life altering.

Also, you tend to "choose" your friends and the reason they are your friends is because you get on well and have compatible personalities which can make them somewhat more accepting of certain things.

That's what I think anywa...

Happy days

 

friends dont help me pay rent and fill out fafsa forms and are willing to wire me money when i have car problems

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Parents have desires for your life, friends don't. Parents can easily be disappointed, friends not so much

 

Because I wouldn't have a place to live if I told them, instead of their speculation.

 

Friends are also your peers and they are statistically more likely to be "pro-gay" than the generation of your parents.

 

I think one of the big issues with parents is covered in this thread:
http://emptyclosets.com/forum/paren...ts-please-dont-assume-sexual-orientation.html