Girls.. What's your worst fear about dating a woman

-That I might never be the pretty and happy girl I have in my head.
-Never having a strong social network.
-Death.

---------- Post added 22nd Jun 2014 at 04:29 AM ----------

Oh sorry misread the question... :icon_redf

My worst fear about dating a woman? That she would not like me.

 

I'm scared that I won't be attracted to her.

 

I have a lot of dating related anxieties. Aside from my parents I don't care what people would think. Most of my worries are related to what my partner would think of me and whether I could be the kind of woman she'd want to be with.

 

I worry about things that are far off way too much, so things like all my relationships failing and so I never get married, never have kids, and disappoint my parents. They're fine with me being gay, but they really want grandchildren XD I want to have kids one day too.

 

Probably the biggest one is obvious if people follow my posts: Us doing any kind of sexual act together and her thinking either of us are somehow still 'virgins' because it didn't involve penetration or a man.
If I was ever in that situation, I fear I could physically harm myself or my partner because of how passionate my anger gets on the topic (and I really don't want to do that) so I choose to stay celibate for personal safety issues. I think liking women in general has lowered my self-esteem and made me hate my body more than I did when I thought I was straight. So I probably wouldn't want a sexual relationship with a woman.

Besides that one....no, I don't have any fears. I don't have a fear of rejection, being cheated on, any of that since I don't have such intense feelings on it.
Probably the only other thing is dating a closeted person, which is a no-no in my book since I hate secret relationships.

 

That she won't think I'm good enough because I'm bi, not that attractive, and wierd

 

That my friends won't like her or approve of who I date. They're such a big part of my life that I couldn't imagine falling for a girl that I couldn't bring around them.

 

-- How my Christian grandmother might react
-- Things not working out for whatever reason

 

oh jesus where do i start

---------- Post added 22nd Jun 2014 at 11:51 AM ----------

well dunkass dating a woman might be a good start!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

That she'll be too clingy. I need my space, and I don't know if she'll be willing to give it to me.

 

That I'd get too shy around her and worry too much about what I look like/say, etc.

 

That the relationship will go way too fast. No sex on the first date.

 

That I won't feel comfortable holding her hand in public.

 

That I will worry too much and will mess up the relationship. And that I don't want to be the one always reaching out.

 

that she'll think my NOSE is tOO BIG or mybody is shaped weird or my voice is MESSED UP or i am boring as hell and disorganized and weird, i am just weird as hell she'll notice that too, and she'll be too pretty for me, she will be, they'll ALL BE

 

Her being bisexual and lying and telling me she's a lesbian .

this could be a lesbian or a bisexual woman and I worry about cheating
a girl that can never tell me the truth and constantly lying
I'm scared I might get someone I can't trust or would not like me for me
I also fear that she wouldn't like me or love me and that I would not be lovable