Opinions

All the time, i get so happy if someone has positive opinion ^.^

 

If anyone says something positive, it makes me happy- but at the same time, I've gotten immunity from the negativity. If someone is cruel, it doesn't matter. If someone is nice, it does.

 

I don't think so. I don't even believe them.

 

My sisters opinion of me is the most important one to me (because she's the most important person in my life) but any time someone has a good opinion of me it makes me happy.

 

My mother, my brother, and Jesus are the only three people who's opinion I let affect me. Sure I care about my friends opinions, but friends come and go.

 

Of course I'd prefer if the people I loved didn't think little of me. But having said that, opinions aren't something I really worry about. I'm the type that doesn't really care what others think. Love me? Super. Hate me? Cool beans. Unless it's like my significant other, I couldn't really care less what people think of me. I'm just me; take it or leave it.

 

At first impact neither good nor bad critics/opinions effect me.

I process those reactions and straighten myself up if needed afterwards.... still like this at this age. Guess somethings never change.

 

I feel that way with most people unless it's somebody I don't like

 

^x2

 

I try not to worry too much about other people's opinions of me.

However, I would say I care what my husband and my family members think of me. I do want to do right by them and stay on good terms.

 

I wish I could say I'm unaffected, but I'm not. I only care about the opinions of my nuclear family and my close friends. Otherwise, if they dislike me, tough. You can't get everyone to like you, and I have to learn that, because I try too hard sometimes. :/

 

I am naturally a people pleaser, so most everyone. This is kind of my downfall and why I had been closeted(and still am with many) for so long.

 

I should probably amend this a bit... Positive opinions are great, of course. Compliments are always lovely and make me feel good, but having said that, the negative ones don't really affect me. When someone is negative toward me, I tend to just brush it off and disregard them and their opinion, especially if it's negativity for the sake of negativity and isn't constructive or helpful or well-intended.

 

My parents and two of my friends. That's about it.

 

Yeah here on EC with my EC friends and friends in real life

 

Generally, I care whether or not an opinion of me is accurate rather than positive. I've been known to piss people off, and I'm alright with that.

 

My older sisters opinion matters alot. She usually doesn't have a positive opinion of me and when she does, i get over excited.

 

My brother is like that. It's actually rather manipulative.