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Is it true...?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Young Blood, Jul 1, 2014.

  1. Young Blood

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    That the person you have your first kiss, first hookup, etc...you form a weird attachment to them? If it is, I wonder why it is that happens...? If anyone has some theories, it'd be interesting to hear what you guys think :slight_smile:
     
  2. Jay47

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    I have a strong attachment to the inside of my elbow


    What. You know you practiced kissing when you were a kid.
     
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    To some, I'm sure. It makes sense, because it's easier to remember the first of anything, than anything between that and the current. This especially becomes true, if it is a lot. In a way, 'your first' is the standard by which you will compare, until someone else comes along and topples that. And even then, 'your first' will always have that title.

    I remember my first time swimming without floats, but I don't remember my 453rd time. I remember my first time riding a bike, without training wheels, but I don't remember my 216th time. And so on and so on.
     
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    Not at all. My first kiss was terrible, my first relationship has been improved upon, and there was nothing memorable about my first sexual encounter.

    People love to romanticize romance. Gives them something to daydream about, I guess.
     
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    I don't agree. I have no attachment to a lot of my firsts. Just very few because I still love them as people.
     
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    The only strong attachment I feel to my first anything is my first real crush. Nothing came of it, but I never did get over her. :frowning2:

    My first gf was great, but I don't feel a strange attachment to her after-the-fact.
     
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    nope nope

    first kiss was amazing...but I try to stay out of the past. I love the love of my love

    my current love....love
     
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    The first real crush! Yes, mine was a girl of 22 when I was just sixteen. I think about her every once in a while.

    I don't remember my first kiss though.

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    Erm, I'm sorry but I just tried that. I can't quite reach.....