what are the advantages of a same sex relationship?

No pregnancy!

 

Two penises. Four holes. You know where I'm going with this. Other than the sexual part, probably the fact that a male will always understand a male better and a female will understand a female better, so fights are less common. I don't know how it is for girls, but for guys, it's really nice having a partner as horny as you are continuously. o:

Lots of love,
Andy

 

Definitely no pregnancy. I don't ever want kids and actually have a phobia of pregnancy, so the fact that I don't even have to worry about pregnancy when I'm having sex with girls is definitely a plus.

I always use condoms with my husband, but even then, there's a slight risk.

The fact that I think, a person of the same sex understands you more on an emotional and mental level than one of the opposite sex... and also, you can probably empathize and bond with each other more.

This is shallow and probably TMI, but um... I kind of like vagina better than penis

 

When looking for a boyfriend, I don't need to do the chasing - other people can chase me. People can buy me drinks instead of the other way around. No expectation to pay for dinner. Always up for sex (still male, after all)

I also get the impression that guys are not as high maintenance as women.

 

This

 

No utter bemusement as to why the opposite gender keeps doing [insert behaviour].
Toilet seat remains stationary.
Doesn't have to deal with the implied and traditional inequality of hetero relationships.

For women: Other women actually know what, where, and how to use the clitoris.

 

We're not afraid of pleasuring the penis as women might be. It's a comfort zone to us rather than being something to be afraid. Just speaking from what I've heard....

 

Definitely no pregnancy! Another girl totally understands that "time of the month" Also I keep hearing about "same equipment, better pleasure" so that's probably a bonus too.

 

Yeah. I hear a lot of women really don't like giving blowjobs, but I certainly do.

 

- Your wardrobe doubles in size

- You have a partner who knows what the hell they're doing with your anatomy

- Both partners get off!

(Seriously though. I wish I had half the advantages you guys are listing. My boyfriend and I are same gender but not exactly same sex :lol

 

This is my #1 advantage. Haha.

 

Men are easier for me to talk to and get along with. There's just a bond I can have with other men--platonic, romantic and/or sexual--that I've never been able to have with a woman. We just "get" each other, I guess.

 

Same here. Fantasize about it. :eusa_clap

 

if your going out you can get ready and out the door in 10 minutes.

 

Egalitarian. No sexual roles you have to play and everything is pretty much divided by who wants to do what, not what is expected of you.

For instance, my wife and I both cook, but I LOVE to do it and find it relaxing, so I do the bulk of it. I also find it relaxing to do the yard work, like weeding, trimming and choosing what goes where, planting etc. I don't like to mow, so my wife does that, and I don't like to put things together(event though I am able to do so) such as our new grill, finish the deck and all the painting around the house. So, we pretty much just decide what needs to be done and we pick what we like to do and do that. The other picks up slack.

 

I think it is nice that all the roles are negotiated--and by two people who are often (although certainly not always) more similar than most straight couples would ever dream of being. I've had several of my straight male coworkers express their envy of that. A lot of straight people, from what my coworkers express, seem to experience the difference between male and female as an additional chasm to bridge in the relationship--one which they note rather enviously the gay couples they know (for many of them it's just me and my partner) don't seem to have to deal with.

 

I just connect so much better emotionally with other women. There are only a few guys I've ever considered friends. I don't have any common interests with them (other than girls), and to me they're all just guys.