1. This site uses cookies. By continuing to use this site, you are agreeing to our use of cookies. Learn More.

Awkward moments when you realized you had same sex attraction...

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by QueerTransEnby, Jul 5, 2014.

Thread Tools

Thread Tools

Page 1 of 3
  1. QueerTransEnby

    QueerTransEnby
    Full Member

    Joined:
    May 15, 2014
    Messages:
    3,708
    Likes Received:
    7
    Location:
    Michigan, USA
    Gender:
    Genderqueer
    Gender Pronoun:
    They
    Sexual Orientation:
    Other
    Out Status:
    Some people
    What are the awkward moments when you realized you had same sex attraction. I am talking about completely innocent moments that are not inherently sexual. For me, one that sticks it is at a church youth event for my denomination. We were playing basketball and getting killed by this team. I was in the post because I was the tallest guy at 5'11"(yes, we were that bad), and their center leaned into me just the right way for me to feel his tight butt if you get my drift. :wink: I was turned on, but he scored and I didn't. LOL. I was distracted. :lol:
     
    #1 QueerTransEnby, Jul 5, 2014
  2. Candace

    Candace
    Regular Member

    Joined:
    May 8, 2013
    Messages:
    3,819
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Southeastern U.S.
    Gender:
    Male
    I was eight years old, in elementary school, and there was this one kid who was really tan, had a sleeveless shirt on. I kept wanting to look down his shirt, :lol:, but I kept getting yelled at since I wasn't saying in a single file line with my classmates. oops, too distracted there haha.
     
    #2 Candace, Jul 5, 2014
  3. Nychthemeron

    Nychthemeron
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jun 16, 2014
    Messages:
    3,084
    Likes Received:
    3
    Location:
    Tennessee, USA
    Gender:
    Male
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Some people
    I can't tell you how many times I awkwardly stared at random attractive strangers.

    (that were probably a decade or something above my age)
     
    #3 Nychthemeron, Jul 5, 2014
  4. Tai

    Tai
    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Jun 6, 2014
    Messages:
    867
    Likes Received:
    17
    Location:
    CA
    Gender:
    Female
    Gender Pronoun:
    She
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    A few people
    Kept staring at this girl at track camp (who, embarrassingly, my friend wanted to go meet so we did) and when I caught myself I was afraid she would notice and think of me as a creeper.

    Oh, and this other time at school where a girl asked me a question and I started sweating and looking flustered.
     
    #4 Tai, Jul 5, 2014
    Last edited: Jul 5, 2014
  5. Hexagon

    Hexagon
    Full Member

    Joined:
    May 1, 2011
    Messages:
    8,558
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    Earth
    Yay, another one of these questions that makes me wonder if I'm really sexual.
     
    #5 Hexagon, Jul 5, 2014
  6. Nychthemeron

    Nychthemeron
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jun 16, 2014
    Messages:
    3,084
    Likes Received:
    3
    Location:
    Tennessee, USA
    Gender:
    Male
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Some people
    I don't really think you have to be sexual to experience same-sex attraction.
     
    #6 Nychthemeron, Jul 5, 2014
  7. spockbach

    spockbach
    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Jun 19, 2013
    Messages:
    381
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    New York City
    Gender:
    Female
    Sexual Orientation:
    Lesbian
    (friend takes off shirt)

    Me: "Um, do you want me to give you some privacy?"

    Friend: "Hey, we're all girls here!"
     
    #7 spockbach, Jul 5, 2014
  8. Nychthemeron

    Nychthemeron
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jun 16, 2014
    Messages:
    3,084
    Likes Received:
    3
    Location:
    Tennessee, USA
    Gender:
    Male
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Some people
    :lol: i'm so sorry
     
    #8 Nychthemeron, Jul 5, 2014
  9. YuriBunny

    YuriBunny
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jan 10, 2014
    Messages:
    44
    Likes Received:
    7
    Location:
    I'm an introvert; I live in my head.
    Gender:
    Female
    Gender Pronoun:
    She
    Sexual Orientation:
    Lesbian
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    I had pretty much the same thing happen to me. :lol:
     
    #9 YuriBunny, Jul 5, 2014
  10. Hiems

    Hiems
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jun 10, 2012
    Messages:
    1,183
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    New Jersey
    One of my friends drove me and his friend back from a party. His friend and I were sitting in the back.

    My friend did a very sharp turn, so I got toppled into his friend. It felt nice to lean against him for like 2 seconds because he was a cute guy. But then he pushed me away, LOL.
     
    #10 Hiems, Jul 5, 2014
  11. Artistic Ferret

    Artistic Ferret Guest

    When I had to try not to look at other girls in a locker room at school. And this one time when my bestfriend was changing her clothes in the same room.
     
    #11 Artistic Ferret, Jul 5, 2014
    Last edited by a moderator: Jul 5, 2014
  12. redandglee

    redandglee
    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Jul 2, 2014
    Messages:
    7
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Female
    Sexual Orientation:
    Lesbian
    Out Status:
    A few people
    Basically me when my friends get changed or in the locker room at school.
     
    #12 redandglee, Jul 5, 2014
  13. SimpleMan

    SimpleMan
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Mar 21, 2013
    Messages:
    414
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Indianapolis
    Gender:
    Male
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    Long bus trip for a church thing in college and the most attractive guy in our church group was sitting next to me and fell asleep on my shoulder. I pretended to be annoyed while secretly enjoying it.
     
    #13 SimpleMan, Jul 5, 2014
  14. ChromeNerd

    ChromeNerd
    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Dec 6, 2011
    Messages:
    1,082
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Canada
    Gender:
    Female
    Out Status:
    A few people
    I can relate. I've always felt awkward in changing rooms and I never understood what people meant when they said "we're all girls."
     
    #14 ChromeNerd, Jul 5, 2014
  15. the haunted

    the haunted
    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Apr 27, 2014
    Messages:
    789
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    United States
    It's always awkward when you like your straight best friend hahaha.
     
    #15 the haunted, Jul 5, 2014
  16. Yossarian

    Yossarian
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Sep 14, 2013
    Messages:
    1,814
    Likes Received:
    4
    Location:
    Florida
    Gender:
    Male
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    I went over to a classmate's apartment; we were to do a timed multi-mile run together in preparation for a military summer camp. We were talking casually as he started changing street clothes to running gear. He takes off his shoes and socks, then drops his pants, then takes off his shirt and undershirt, then his undershorts, all the while talking to me, with me trying to keep looking him in the eyes, while he strips completely naked in front of me as though it is a perfectly normal thing to do. He had a very ordinary face, but he was really lean ripped, with washboard abs and a hairy chest; a gorgeous body in prime shape, much nicer than you would expect just looking at his face. I had a hard time concentrating on what I was saying as he pulled on a jock and running shorts and shoes, and while we were subsequently running together for several miles. I felt like I shouldn't be staring at him, but I couldn't take my eyes off him while he was changing.
     
    #16 Yossarian, Jul 5, 2014
  17. anthonythegamer

    anthonythegamer Guest

    In 6th grade, we were climbing a tree. I thought I was going to fall so I grabbed onto something. It turned out to be my friend's arm.

    This made my face (particularly my lips) get into close contact with his neck area and looked down his shirt. He told me to keep my face there... maybe because he's gay too but he moved to Oregon so I can't ask, or it was because my face was warm and it was in the middle of the rainy season in SoCal.
     
    #17 anthonythegamer, Jul 5, 2014
  18. QueerTransEnby

    QueerTransEnby
    Full Member

    Joined:
    May 15, 2014
    Messages:
    3,708
    Likes Received:
    7
    Location:
    Michigan, USA
    Gender:
    Genderqueer
    Gender Pronoun:
    They
    Sexual Orientation:
    Other
    Out Status:
    Some people
    So dumb question, but he didn't wear any underwear with his jockstrap? I would always wear it with mine playing baseball.
     
    #18 QueerTransEnby, Jul 5, 2014
  19. Tightrope

    Tightrope
    Full Member

    Joined:
    May 31, 2013
    Messages:
    5,415
    Likes Received:
    387
    Location:
    USA
    Gender:
    Male
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Some people
    #19 Tightrope, Jul 5, 2014
  20. confuseduser99

    confuseduser99
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Apr 25, 2014
    Messages:
    1,006
    Likes Received:
    1
    Location:
    Ontario, Canada
    Ugh, the locker room. Now it all makes sense. I was ALWAYS so uncomfortable in the locker room, changing with other guys. My same-sex attraction would do this to me. Of course at the time, I just pretended that it was something else that would make me feel uncomfortable.
     
    #20 confuseduser99, Jul 5, 2014
(You must log in or sign up to post here.)
Page 1 of 3