What do you call "attractive" ?

Google Julian Schratter. That my friend is the definition of "attractive"!

 

Sex: Male.
Gender: Any
Age: Under 40 but at least 18.
Height: I'm not picky, as long as he's not like, 7 feet tall or something.
Race: Doesn't matter. All people are gorgeous.
Hair: Preferably short.
Attitude: Positive and not a jackass. :lol:
Body Type: Any size as long as he's soft. My husband weighs two of me.
Personality: Fun and quirky but not overly sociable.
Anything else: These are non-negotiable: He must have a sense of humor, be at least as intelligent and cultured as I am (Don't worry. I'm kind of a scatter-brained bumpkin.), and dress presentably. That last one doesn't seem like a lot to ask, but you'd be surprised.

 

Sex: I don't care what you have in your pants really
Gender: I see it as more along the lines of femininity and masculinity and I do go for people who queer gender. Like when I see a feminine guy, I admit to having checked them out thoroughly.
Age: As long as they're in the 18-early 30's age range.
Height: Reasonable height would be preferable.
Race: Who cares?
Hair: I guess as long as the hairstyle and color they have suits them.
Attitude: A mix of realist and dreamer. Optimistic and hardworking.
Body Type: Any although I do like curves and toned muscles but it's not a preference...merely a plus. Not too skinny...you gotta have some meat on you or else my mom will think I'm starving you.
Personality: Not too perky because that annoys the hell out of me. Loving, humorous, humble and sincere. Oh, as well as a healthy dollop of sarcasm too.
Anything else: I like intelligence and an open-mind. Like c'mon, you're going to be reading yaoi with me if you like or not lmfao. Also gotta deal with my family and their moments. I hate liars, cheaters and jealousy (the poisonous kind). Can't stand pushy or nosy people either. Note: We would have to be friends for a while before a relationship would even form so...yeah. I'm a take-it-slow kind of guy and cautious so...I would most likely be content just holding your hand for a long time before I even considered kissing you.
I think that's it...

 

Sex: either
Age: older than me but under 25
Height: taller than me which isn't too hard, I'm 5'2"
Race: any race
Hair: any hair, preferably not dyed
Attitude: good?
Body Type: lanky or feminine if a guy, masculine if a girl
Personality: sweet, funny, introverted like me
Anything else: if a guy, minimal to no facial hair (well I guess this goes for girls too xD)

 

Kind. Loving. Charitable. Loyal. Honest. Compassionate. Empathetic. Sympathetic.

Bodies are only shells. The only thing that matters to me is the soul of the man who inhabits it.

 

Sex: Doesn't make a lick of difference.
Age: 22-28
Height: Doesn't matter.
Race: Doesn't matter
Hair: Doesn't matter.
Attitude: Laid-back, yet adventurous.
Body Type: Doesn't matter.
Personality: I like wit. Sarcastic, good sense of humor. Intelligent. Affectionate.
Anything else: Just someone who is themselves. I would LOVE if that person loved horse racing as much as I do, as I have no one that really shares my obsession with it. But what are ya gonna do?

 

Sex: women
Age: 20 -30
Height: it can be whatever don't really care .
Race: white , asian , hispanic and black ok like any race . but I have a preference for white women , hispanic and asian women .
Hair: blond , red , black ,and brunette
Attitude: friendly
Body Type: skinny and voluptuous
Personality: confidence and kindness
Anything else: I like women that have husky voices that's oh so sexy .:icon_redf
but any type of voice on a woman is fine .

 

Sex: Any sex, any gender
Age: In theory I'd prefer only a bit older than myself, but in practice I feel attraction to a lot of people far older than myself, Like in their 40s.
Height: Any is good, but it's easier to kiss if they are around 6 foot tall like me.
Race: Literally the last thing I would care about when choosing a partner.
Hair: On women I prefer short, on men I prefer medium.
Attitude: Mostly positive with a healthy dose of cynicism.
Body Type: Not to skinny not too fat.
Personality: Everything else I've listed would just be nice to have, personality is the only thing that is make or break. I want someone who is free spirited and open minded. I want someone who shares my interests, especially my nerdy interests. And above all I want someone who is loving and has never truly hated anyone or anything.
Anything else: I prefer women to be at least a bit butch.

 

Sex: Male
Age: +5 max (might go a little higher depending on the person)
Height: Height ≥ 5'5" (my height)
Race: Doesn't matter
Hair: Short
Attitude: Friendly, thoughtful, empathic, open-minded, cultured
Body Type: Somewhat muscular (muscle-bearish would be ideal - think Ben Cohen )
Personality: Rational (I need someone to keep me grounded at times because I can go crazy), and I guess everything listed under "attitude" (not sure what the difference is haha)
Anything else:
- I love body hair. More = better but it's not an absolute requirement
- Ummm being nerdy and into video games is a BIG plus
- Takes care of his health via nutrition and exercise. I take care of myself already, so I would like not to be someone's nurse. I want him to live with me as long as possible.
- Being able to cook well is a big plus (I can't cook for shit LOL)

 

I've been asked what kind of person I would call attractive on other forums and in real life, and I don't normally like to answer as I don't want people to feel they can't be friends (or more depending on the situation) just because they aren't a perfect match.

That said, this is one is fairly brief, so why not...



Sex: Male

Age: If we're considering for a relationship, I don't think anyone older than 22/23 would be interested in me.

Height: No preference, but not too much short or taller than I am!

Race: Everyone has a chance.

Hair: Hair preferably short. I like all natural hair colours. I have a thing for blonde if it goes well on the person

Attitude: Naturally, 'a good one'. Positive, friendly, relaxed etc.

Body Type: Just average is good for me, muscles aren't much of an interest to me, so not required!

Personality: Friendly, funny, calm, kind, very relaxed. I don't like being pressured to do things I'm uncomfortable with either, so although adventurous can be good, understanding too!

 

If he has good character it will bypass anything physical !
One thing I find really attractive is guys taller than me although thats not a hard feat to achieve >.>

 

Sex: Male

Age: -3 years to +5 years, but it's not set in stone; that said, I would want someone who is similar in maturity.

Height: 5'4 to 6'1 again, not set in stone; one of my friends is 5'4 and, damn, he's hot.

Race: No preference in theory; most guys I see, though, are either white or Hispanic, so based on simple probability those are probably the two groups I will see most often when dating. But, honestly, I've drooled over guys of every "race" :lol:.

Hair: Short to short-medium; I strongly dislike guys with long hair.

Attitude: Relaxed, level-headed.

Body Type: Hairy is best; average to muscular to husky is all fine by me.

Personality: Family-oriented, fun, spontaneous, adventurous with streaks of being a "homebody."

Anything else: It would help if he was a good mechanic/repairman, that way while he does the chores and takes care of things, I can cook for him. That doesn't mean I'm not able to fix things, but I prefer to delegate :lol:. It would also help if he's not into fast food; I'd hate to see him eat McDonald's every week; it's bad for my health and his. Also, he'd be a non-smoker.

 

Can I just post a picture instead?

http://www.underwearexpert.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/novak-djok-monacome.jpg

 

Sex: Male
Age: Close to my age
Height: No preference
Race: Any race
Hair: Preferably short and I like darker hair
Attitude: A good balance of positive and negative; laid-back
Body Type: Average I guess I don't really care
Personality: Good sense of humor and intelligent
Anything else: It would be nice to have some shared interests

 

Sex: male
Age: close to mine
Race: any!
Hair: dark and short
Attitude: positive, caring, laidback
Body type: average, a little bit of muscle
Personality: has a lot of intellect, silly, yet serious when he needs to be
Anything else: If he could like me for me being myself

 

I can't just like this list what I find attractive on a person. Usually it's a little habit they're unaware of. Like the noise they make ib an awkward situation, the face they have when watching a scary movie... Each has their own attractive traits. I do appreciate kind eyes and sincere smile, though

 

Sex: Female
Age: Close to mine, preferably the same age or a year or two away
Height: About the same as mine
Race: I guess either white or Asian
Hair: I like long, straight, silky hair on girls. Color doesn't really matter, but preferably not blonde.
Attitude: Um, like, a normal attitude. I would prefer her not to have a high temper or anything like that. She should be pretty relaxed most of the time.
Body Type: About the same as mine
Personality: Nice, has common interests with me, gets along well with me and my friends, thoughtful, caring, cool, fun to be around
Anything else: Well, it'd be great if she liked me! Lol.

 

Gypsy,

although I must admit there are certain physical features that I am attracted to in a potential lover, and that in the heat of passion some of those things might count, still, I love your answer here. Ultimately what you say is true, although I must admit I cannot quite live up to that standard myself.

Regarding my own answer to this topic, well I guess a body shape and size at least roughly comparable to my own would be helpful, as if a lover were too heavy they might squash me (I'm rather slender); and pretty, effeminate features in a guy do turn me on, I must admit; but the most important thing of all for me, is that I see kindness in a lover's eyes; most important thing by far.

 

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