"You're lying"

If they've thought that they haven't told me. I've certainly gotten some looks of utter shock, though.


If they continue to get to know me, however, it becomes pretty apparent when I will talk about attractive guys non-stop (especially if I've been drinking, which is often how I hang out these days :lol.

 

Some people just don't know how to handle rejection well. These women are probably used to attention from men, and when a guy comes along who isn't attracted to them whatsoever, it comes as a massive blow to their egos. Rather than facing the facts, they'd rather find fault in *you*. I've also heard of straight men being called gay for not returning interest before.

Anyway, being bisexual, there's never any shortage of doubt, judgment, and hostility from others. It's one reason I don't usually tell them, but would prefer for them to come to their own conclusions. If someone doesn't want to consider the possibility, they won't.

 

my cousin said I was lying when I told him I thought I was gay he asked me to prove it so I offered to wank him off I was 15 at the time he was 19 he chickened out thank god .

 

I was actually verbally abused by one girl, evidently drunk off her tits, when I ignored her sexual passes, and told her I was gay. I can't remember what she said exactly, because I was pretty drunk myself, but something along the lines of.. 'Fucking cunt, fuck off, drop dead'.

It was pretty funny actually. It's water off a ducks back as far as I'm concerned.

 

Yes I've been called a liar by the opposite sex, I've been also called a brat , a 12 year old , rebellious , a waste, a bitch , sick . By opposite sex.

 

Many years ago I came out to a rather conservative coworker and he told me I was lying and just trying to mess with his mind since I liked doing that to people. I replied that while I certainly did like playing mind games with people (still do, actually), in this case I was telling the truth. The mind game part was just a bonus

He then said something like 'But you can't be gay! You don't fit my stereotype!!'.

That was a fun day:badgrin:

Todd

 

I always have this problem. If I try to tell people I'm gay most people think I'm joking or wrong about my sexuality. It makes me so pissed off so I avoid coming out to people. I guess I'll let them figure out my sexuality on their own.

 

I've never been told that I was "lying" per se, but people were in disbelief when I told them that I was gay. Like, the signs were really obvious. How could you have not known? haha

 

HAHA, somewhat.
if i tell this to women in general, the first thought in their head is "what kind of guys he likes?". if it's guys on the other hand, of course their stupid reflexes would be " long as you don't flirt with me" or " NAHHHH you lying!". i did get that from my sis haha, she thought i was joking around but changed her mind when i was trying to get my phone in my friends pants......yea, it was a guy.

 

I haven't got time for this kind of person. If they tell me I'm lying, I'll just find someone else.

 

haha yeah these ppl were right let us turn in our gay badges they caught us

 

I know a couple(by couple I mean one cx) bisexual girls who say that they are lesbians to avoid the guys who make advances towards her but she's bisexual. So because she lies about being a lesbian to avoid advances those girls think you are saying you're gay to avoid advances from that woman, for whatever reason.
Hope I helped? Which I highly doubt.

 

I've only had reactions of disbelief. Nobody has outright accused me of lying.

 

I've had a guy friend stare at me in disbelief and question me repeatedly if I was really gay and others who questioned me, but I've never been called a liar, more like "you're kidding?!?!"

I also don't socialize often enough with women to make them think I'm interested in them. I've never been to a club or "real" bar (hotel bar doesn't count :lol to socialize so I've never been hit on in those situations. If I deal with a woman in real life, she'll usually assume I'm either shy or gentlemanly.

 

Happens all the time, or they just think if you have sex with them you'll want the opposite sex and can never go back.

 

One of my best friends didn't believe me straight away, thought I was joking or something, then I started crying and he realised I was being serious :icon_mrgr

 

How old are these people saying this? Obviously they are young, or insecure. Seriously, if someone told me I was lying about my sexuality, I would tell them to kiss my ass.

 

I try my best not to lie, but I'm happy to say that the one time someone accused me of this, I was 100% not lying. If you still haven't figured it out, it was when I tried to come out! <3

 

I've had people misunderstand what I'm telling them, for example thinking I'm a MTF, but nobody ever said I was lying. I guess I'm very lucky.