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Friend or Lover

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by ibsian, Aug 29, 2008.

  1. ibsian

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    If you were made to choose between a friend or a lover, what would you pick up.
    One Soul(friend) or One Body(Lover)?

    please dont go digital for this question, i mean dont pick anything between these like friend with benefits
     
  2. Swamp56

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    Wow, hard question :astonished: . I think I'll have to think about that one :confused:

    EDIT:
    Friend with benefits :grin: ?

    j/k

    I really can't answer that question now that I think about it more :S .
     
  3. InaRut

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    I think a lover..but I would think my lover would also be my friend?
    Maybe I don't understand the question
     
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    Friend. A friend is a rare thing, a lover is rare as well. But the rarest thing is a friend who can save you from the damage of a lover.
     
  5. ibsian

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    may be, i think, you got the question just right but you are confused about the answer
     
  6. ibsian

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    Your answer is similar to my perception and idea :thumbsup: :icon_wink :icon_bigg
     
  7. ibsian

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    at least you gave an answer buddy:eusa_clap
    :thumbsup:
     
  8. Psychedelic Bookmarks

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    If I had to choose between a friend who I really felt emotionally connected to, and a lover who was perfect in body but not emotionally satisfying, I would definately choose the friend. There's really no competition.
     
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    As Beyond says, what type of lover, someone who could care less about your feelings and just uses you for sex, and vice versa, or someone you're in love with who you're in a relationship with? If the latter, than a lover. If the first one, than a friend.
     
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    I was going to come up with a reply of my own, but this really says it all.
     
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    I wouldn't find a "relationship" that consisted of just sex satisfying. It could be fun for a while, but I need more :slight_smile: So, definitely a friend in that case.