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Should I add him on facebook again?

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  1. edy

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    There was a guy I liked few months ago, we were both on the same high school although he was much younger than me (he's 17 and I'm 20). He said he was bisexual although I never saw him with a guy

    I liked his voice and his attitude, he wasn't exactly beautiful but he's very attractive and popular among chicks of his age. Anyways, I started to hanging out with him and I even went to his place once. I told him if he wanted to date me and he said no :frowning2: then I deleted him, he stills talks to me and he's very friendly, I kinda miss him although he only talked about himself all the time

    should I add him again?:lol:
     
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    Wait until he's 18. Otherwise, it is creepy in my opinion.
     
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    I know and that's the reason why I didn't went any further, I didn't insist at all :lol:, I think he's 18 already
     
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    Well, if he's 18 and you know for sure, why not? Just because a bi male has never been with a man doesn't mean he's not bi. This is true for women who are bi. They can be bi without being with a woman in the past. Just because I am a bi guy who has only been with a guy does not mean I am gay(not that there's anything wrong with that). I am still attracted to women, just have not had the opportunity to be with one physically. Don't let people's opportunities or lack thereof dictate their sexuality. Just my $.02.
     
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    You're right

    Actually he's now dating a bisexual chick who wanted to date my cousin :lol:
     
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    Yeah, we tend to flock together, one way or another. :slight_smile: My therapist at the LGBT center is bisexual, sooooooo happy to have her.
     
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    Short Answer: Confirm his age, then yes.
    Long Answer: Once again I have no long answer...
     
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    My best girlfriend is bisexual, a very good friend is bisexual, my sister is bisexual and the love of my life identified himself as bisexual, too. It seems like I get along with bisexual people although I'm not bisexual

    Because of my ex-boyfriend I used to be very biased towards them, It took some time until I realized it was just another form of love
     
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    What do you have to lose from adding him? DO IT!
     
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    No.

    You should unregister from Facebook.
    You should try to erase ALL the date you ever shared and spread using it.
    Make sure to leave as little a trace as possible.

    Be bold - Say no to peer pressure, leave Facebook behind, that evil machine, and start meeting people face to face.

    That's my honest opinion.
    Just don't take it too seriously. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    ask him if he's got another topic to talk about other then himself.... lol, in any case, that's your choice =P
     
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    I wouldn't. Only because it could end up hurting you again, you don't want to put yourself in a position where you may start to like him again and have to deal with rejection if he isn't interested.

    Meet new people instead, ones who want to talk and hear from you too.
     
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    No, I'm not trying to date him again I just miss his company

    However, if he starts talking only about himself again I will ask him if he doesn't have another interesting topic to talk about besides that
     
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    I mean, if he causes you uneasiness like that, then I wouldn't. Also, I agree with the person about the age thing. Wait until he's 18, otherwise it's a little weird.
     
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    He was 17 like 8 months ago maybe he's legal now :lol:, and he even looks older than me :roflmao:
     
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    Like I said, wait for it. He's in high school still I assume, right?
     
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    Yes but so am I :lol: he's a junior although he should be a senior already
     
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    I think it's kind of creepy for someone out of highschool to date someone in highschool even if he is 18.
     
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    We're both IN hight school :roflmao:

    And I don't want to date him :kiss: