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Hypocrisy?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by mangotree, Jul 14, 2014.

  1. mangotree

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    Is it hypocritical to feel strongly about marriage equality but at the same time never want to get married myself?
     
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    No , it shows you want others to be happy , who want to get married
     
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    Never wanting to get married is a personal decision. Being legally unable to is a civil injustice.
     
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    Not at all, the first is a social equality issue(everyone should have the right to get married, regardless of their orientation/gender). The second is a personal decision.
    Every individual should first: have the right to marry, and second: have the freedom to choose whether or not to do so. You're in the clear, from my perspective.
     
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    yeah I can't top Gen's comment....so I second that
     
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    No! Just because you don't want to partake in an institution doesn't mean that discrimination against same-sex couples that do want to partake is ok.
     
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    it is not! You can have many reasons not to want one...
    For example I know some people that do not want to get married because of all the implications that marriage used to have (misogyny, religion, etc...).

    I want to get married but I want a humanist ceremony. I like the idea of letting my beloved ones that I love my (hypothetical for now) boyfriend and want to spend my life with him. You could do that with a civil partnership but I think I prefer a humanist ceremony (no religion involved in my marriage, please :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:), since they can be very personal and exactly how you want :slight_smile:

    Here in the UK LGBT activists are fighting to make civil partnerships legal for straight people, since there was a poll some time ago that indicated that a significant amount of heterosexual people would prefer this (mainly due to the reasons I have cited earlier). And I think it is the fair thing to do, freedom to chose for everyone.
     
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    I feel the same way. It isn't hypocritical, not in the slightest. What could be wrong with believing people deserve rights that you aren't interested in?
     
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    ^This. You're exercising your right to say 'I don't want to get married', that's different to someone else telling you: 'You can't get married'.
     
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    I don't believe so. Does that mean if you don't own a dog or cat, you shouldn't feel strongly about shelters putting down animals?
     
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    It's absolutely not hypocritical. No more so than a heterosexual who believes in marriage equality.
     
  12. idream

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    It'd only be hypocrytical if you said nobody else could get married, and then you get married. Your doing the opposite, which is perfectly acceptable
     
  13. Wuggums47

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    I don't understand how that's hypocritical. I don't eat shrimp, but I think other people have the right to eat them. Does that make me a hypocrite?