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Would you date an opinionated of feisty person

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by stocking, Jul 17, 2014.

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Would you date an opinionated person ?

Poll closed Jul 29, 2014.
  1. Yes I would date a feisty or opinionated person

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  2. No way I don't like opinionated people

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  1. stocking

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    Or would it be a turn off and why ?
    and if you like feisty or opinionated person why would you like them ?
     
  2. Peacemaker

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    yes, they seem hot and free-spirited, at least the ones i have met
     
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    Depends what their opinions are. But yes, assuming we are compatible, yes. I don't see the point of dating someone without opinions, or who won't stand up for what's right.
     
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    Nothing wrong with being opinionated or feisty. It's when the said individual doesn't know when to cool it, or control it. You can overstep boundaries with any trait, even the positive ones. I tend to look for execution as opposed to possession, if that makes any sense.

    So, to answer the question, I would date someone like this... if they weren't being a jack ass. Some folks always have to get the last word/be right, and some folks always need to feel above or superior to another. That don't fly with me.
     
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    Absolutely! As long as they're polite about it, and don't butt in whenever someone else wants to share their opinion.
     
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    Possibly... I'm not sure there would be enough room for two opinionated and outspoken partners in a relationship, but it's worth a shot. If nothing else, there shouldn't be too much ambiguity and confusion going on between us.
     
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    Of course, as long as they don't have their opinions dominate yours. It's good, for me at least, since I can view the world through someone else's viewpoint rather than just my own.
     
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    A few people I know are really opinionated couldn't care less if they upset anyone it does cause allot of hassle for them .I would date one myself wont hold it against them .
     
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    Sure. If they behaved respectfully, that would make for some invigorating conversation. Unless their opinions were totally stupid and defied reason, in which case I'd have to show them the door XD.
     
  10. idream

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    They're free and hot and fun to debate with and strong willed:slight_smile:
     
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    Depends on what their opinions are, I guess. But yeah... I would.
     
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    Depends on their opinions. If I agreed with them, yes.
     
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    I love strong-headed people , it’s make some great conversations :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Doesn't make any difference to me, my opinions don't change just because someone else speaks their mind. I'm introverted and i find i get on well with most people because of it
     
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    Yep. After all, I am a feisty and opinionated person! Though, oddly enough, though me and my mate agree on most everything socially/politically, he's very quiet, and only occasionally feisty.
     
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    As long as they respect my opinions then yes
     
  17. drwinchester

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    I'm dating someone like that so I can't say no. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: Look, if I wanted to date someone who wasn't opinionated, I'd go to Bed Bath and Beyond, pick myself out a mat and have a nice quiet evening without the fuss of paying for dinner. But I want someone who knows what they want and has passions and opinions about the world.

    (By the way, feisty is an old Appalachian word for 'gassy', apparently. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: I figured I'd be that guy just for the hell of it)
     
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    Lol I love your analogy wow a mat I didn't see it that way :roflmao:
     
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    Depends on what they're opinionated and feisty about, and more importantly that they admit that such thoughts are opinions and not an objective rule to be placed on others.
     
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    It depends how you define opinionated and fiesty. I have no problem with people holding and expressing strong opinions (I rather like people with strong convictions actually), but I do have a problem with people who arrogantly state their opinions and make derisory comments about others, particularly those with an opposing view. I find it somewhat offensive.