if you had a choice

At the outset, I probably would've picked straight. It seemed like the easier path. Now that I know what's in store, I'd stick with gay.

Lex

 

I'd be straight. Yeah, I still have some way to go

 

I think honestly being gay has made me a stronger and smarter person...

 

After finally accepting being gay not too long ago, I find that I really like that part of myself. Sure, I know that I still have many problems with myself as a whole, but I really don't think that being straight is right for me. Gay all the way.

 

Being gay has made me me. I don't f*** with me.

 

I think I would be a different person if I wasnt gay cause Ive learnt few things from being one.
If you think it as the game difficulties, maybe straight would be easy and gay would be the harder one.

 

That. I won't go too far into it, but because of the things I've experienced due to my sexuality, I feel like a much more perceptive and intelligent person. It's been tougher, but much more interesting. I'm already bored most of the time, I don't what I would do if I were straight. I'm fine the way I am.

 

If I'd been asked this a few years ago, I'd have said straight. Now I'd say I'd stick with being gay. I've met some wonderful people (through EC and other sites) I'd probably never have met otherwise, and I've spent so much time thinking about sexuality that I think I've turned out a lot wiser than I would be otherwise.

 

Id definitley pick gay.

 

Gay.

 

i hate when people say you 'choose' to be gay. what total BS. you cant choose or control what you feel.

id stick with who i am. i do want a kid eventually though, so im thinking it would be easier from that standpoint, to be straight, but anyway, no, i'll figure it out, and i would stay as i am.

 

GAY!!!


Women are fucking lunatics...

 

i agree with you....if i had the choice from the start i would've probably gone with straight since it's the easier way...but now it's hard for me to think of me as being straight....i like this part of me...i really do..

 

I wouldn't become straight. Boys are too sexy

 

I wouldn't have the friends I have now if I wasn't gay. They (girls) felt comfortable around me the first time of meeting me, and I'm pretty sure it's because they know I flirt with them without it going more than just flirting.

If I was straight, then I would've had different friends, and I really don't want that. I love my current friends and family more than anything else. And I want to keep it that way.

The only perks of being straight are, in my opinion, I wouldn't have to worry about the coming out process and it wouldn't be hard to find someone to be in a relationship (you'd normally just go straight to the "does she like me or not?" Gays have to go and find out if he's gay or not (and it's SO incredibly hard) to "does he like me or not?"

 

I would probably still be bi, but NOT transgender. it sucks balls.

 

It's taken me a long time but I wouldn't change who I am for anything. I love being gay and everything that comes with it. When I was younger I might have changed myself, but only to fit in more. Now-a-days, I don't care what other people think. If you don't like me or who I am then go away lol.

 

Agreed.

Anyways, gay, because it has made me a stronger person and given me a new perspective on life. Now that I've gone throught the self-discovery and coming out stages, the worst is over, so why go back now?