I need some tips here. If you are interested in a guy who is gay, or who you think is gay, how to you come on to them? I think a closet gay guy was coming on to me. Are you blunt? is coming on to someone obvious? My friend who overheard said "I think he is coming on to you".
It depends what he was doing - saying to make it obvious . I wouldnt go by what your mate says ask him yourself is he a guy your into .
gay male coworker says he is very blunt and if it doesn't work, any cool person will laugh it off with you
So you can say "i am just joking" if you are blunt? I can't tell if this guy i know is just messing with me or not.
He's way too deep in the closet. He also said that he is a "god fearing man". Maybe he was just trying to trick me into revealing that i am gay?
Don't come out to someone because you think they're gay. Come out to someone because you trust them enough to share something so personal with them.