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coming on to someone you think is gay

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by dblockdavis, Jul 19, 2014.

  1. dblockdavis

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    I need some tips here. If you are interested in a guy who is gay, or who you think is gay, how to you come on to them? I think a closet gay guy was coming on to me. Are you blunt? is coming on to someone obvious? My friend who overheard said "I think he is coming on to you".
     
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    It depends what he was doing - saying to make it obvious . I wouldnt go by what your mate says ask him yourself is he a guy your into .
     
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    If it is too obvious is it a joke?
     
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    gay male coworker says he is very blunt and if it doesn't work, any cool person will laugh it off with you
     
  5. dblockdavis

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    So you can say "i am just joking" if you are blunt? I can't tell if this guy i know is just messing with me or not.
     
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    He's way too deep in the closet. He also said that he is a "god fearing man". Maybe he was just trying to trick me into revealing that i am gay?
     
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    If that is his intention, you need to know why. What would be the consequences of you being outed?
     
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    Don't come out to someone because you think they're gay. Come out to someone because you trust them enough to share something so personal with them.