No Boy Friend, No Girl Friend

Hi All,

My new question is, that how many of you people are really unlucky not to have one single boyfriend or girlfriend?

or how many of you fell in love but never once gained it???

share your sorrow.............

Oh sorry i forgot to jot down my answer which is that, i never found my love till now. Which means that i am the unlucky person who has had not one single girlfriend or boy friend.

[Wander]

Still relationship-less here, at least in the romance department. There are a few people I have minor crushes on, and one guy I actually have a chance with, but I've never been in any sort of partnership. Part of me is glad, though, because of my age. I'm trying to save the romance (and all the money/time/effort that goes with it) for when I can financially support myself.

Originally Posted by Wander

Still relationship-less here, at least in the romance department. There are a few people I have minor crushes on, and one guy I actually have a chance with, but I've never been in any sort of partnership. Part of me is glad, though, because of my age. I'm trying to save the romance (and all the money/time/effort that goes with it) for when I can financially support myself.

Ya nice thinking WANDER simply cool

[Helen]

Well, I've had one very brief mostly internet-based relationship, but it meant a lot to me at the time, and I still haven't fully recovered from it. I know I'm too young to be worrying about it really, but I honestly don't think I'm ever going to find someone who'd love me as much as I'd love them. Everyone in my year at school is starting to 'pair up' so to speak, and I'm no longer 'allowed' to hang out with my old group of friends, because they're all in couples, and it's the couples that go everywhere together.

Also, I always end up falling for people who are older than me, and who live far away. I can't help it, it just happens.

[Maddy]

Never had a relationship, and feel pretty low about it. Sometimes I don't mind, but more often I can't help but wonder what's wrong with me.

[Davey]

i've had one girlfriend but things never really got far. it was back in JR High and I really don't know if much counts. No kissing just holding hands and stuff.

other than her i've had no other girlfriends or boyfriends.

oh i've crushed to many times to count but fallen hardest for AM. That one sucked but I'm over now for the most part. Still get that feeling when i'm close to him but its nothing like it used to be. I can actually look at him and have a convo without blushing and getting all hot.

well i'm sure that was boring.
NEXT!

Never had a girlfriend, it's kind of hard when you don't know any other lesbians except via the internet.

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[ausdtc]

I've never had a relationship with someone I was truly in love with unfortunately. Hopefully that'll change one day!

I've had one "real" relationship previously, however, when I was 16 or 17, with a girl . I'm ashamed to say that my motives for getting together with her weren't very honorable at all. She was a work mate, who developed feelings for me. At the time I hadn't had sex with anyone before, and felt that it was something I *had* to do before I turned 18.. So, I agreed to be with her. It lasted a couple of months, and I did come to care for her, but not in the same way that she did for me. So I broke it off. It's shitty I know, but something I can't take back now.

[gayausdude]

well, Im in the same boat. 21 and no bf
But then I only just started coming out this year to my close friends and mum, so ive got a long way yet.
But id just like a bf to snuggle up to at night, not really lusting for the sex bit... just the cuddles bit...

[ccdd]

I got nowhere near a relationship until I was 18, and several of my friends were in their 20s first, so no need to worry!

[ausdtc]

Originally Posted by gayausdude

well, Im in the same boat. 21 and no bf
But then I only just started coming out this year to my close friends and mum, so ive got a long way yet.
But id just like a bf to snuggle up to at night, not really lusting for the sex bit... just the cuddles bit...

Pretty much the same situation here, only just out so I can't expect too much at once!! And cuddling up in bed with a bf.. I hear you

[Brandford]

Ive never even been on a date

[Kimi]

Me!
Well I had a girlfriend but no boyfriend

Wish me a luck or I'll never get one...

[halfy]

me too. i have never had a boyfriend or a girlfriend either and i am 20 years old. i've kised a few lads but it's never led anywhere and i've never had a date. most of the time i am happy to be single but it does get me down sometimes that i've never had one relationship. i think i might try to 'get out there' so to speak and socialise more. my cousin said that he never got a girlfriend until he was 18 and that was through going to places like camping, army cadets etc. he got a job in a pub so that he could pick up social skills and find it easier to speak to people and girls etc. i think maybe i might find some sort of group to join. picking up people when going round town never seems to lead anywhere. for me anyway.

[interstella]

No B/F, no G/F, never even been kissed. The furthest I've gone with anyone is a long hug from one of my (probably) gay friends. To be honest, I don't really care about the fact that I don't have anyone, because I have my family and friends.

None here either

[Shrug]

i been out for a yr and still no bf! theres alot gay guys in my circle of friends, and im the only one who haznt had a bf!! and nw all my str8 frnds r pairing up, so im always the third or fifth wheel!!!

Originally Posted by gayausdude

But id just like a bf to snuggle up to at night, not really lusting for the sex bit... just the cuddles bit...

Omg I feel the same way!!

*shares sorrow*