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How strong is your Gaydar?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Swamp56, Sep 2, 2008.

  1. Swamp56

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    I'm just wondering how strong everyone's gaydar is here, since this is a mainly gay/bi orientation site :icon_mrgr

    Mine is INCREDIBLY strong for men.....I can tell a straight from a gay/bi, but I can't really tell for a woman D: .
     
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    Not very strong :frowning2:. Unfortunate for me
     
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    I sometimes get very strong "vibes" about people, but I don't trust them at all!
     
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    i just look for the typical gay stereotypes. but otherwise, it's pretty hard for me to tell. even some guys whom i thought were gay weren't. either that, or they were closeted.
     
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    I guess I mainly see it in the eyes of that person....not sure how or why :0 .
     
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    wow, mines lyk tha exact oppisite!!! i kan always tell if a grl iz gay, bt never wit guys!!
     
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    I've never been wrong.
     
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    It fluctuates. Sometimes I'll get heavy vibes from a certain person and turn out to be wrong, sometimes a person will come out that I never expected. Of course, I have been right a few times, but usually it's because of how glaringly obvious the person is about their sexuality.
     
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    i guess mine is shitty cuz i never get a buzz. maybe i need to look harder
     
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    Mine is Awfull, I think it's broken
     
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    Not very strong..
     
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    QFT!

    But it also helps if they're guys wearing pink flip-flops and have bleached hair. :thumbsup:

    Bit of a sub-question: for those with strong gaydars, has your gaydar developed over time or have you always had this ability?
     
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    I don't have one. Seriously. I can never tell.
     
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    i can usually always tell guys...
    but have trouble picking girls...

    can i trade?
     
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    i can usually tell me,even if theyre not stereotypically gay
    woman on the other hand,hmm not so great,shame really!
    there was a girl at work,told me as if did i know she was gay,ha woteva i knew the second i saw her.she reckons she knew bout me too. but a lot of ppl are shocked wen i tell them when i'm out - which is quite annoying cuz the woman are like "nooo i would never have thought it"
     
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    Mine is pretty accurate.
    I can even spot a closet gay and one time I instantly recognised a trans MTF by seeing her eyebrow o0
    I have a bit more trouble with lesbians but I'm usually right.
    Sometimes straight guys in clubs set off my gaydar on purpose, like, they look at me, wink, start chatting but if I dance to close they push me away..
     
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    Mine kinda sucks :lol:

    But it's steadily been getting better =P
     
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    Well, I have trouble some times, but I make eye contact with everyone. If our eyes lock its usually a good sign lol. But I dont know. I think my gaydar goes on the fritz to often to be really reliable... Bias by wishful thinking i guess.
     
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    I don't even bother. If I think a person might be, and it's relevant, I'll ask. Otherwise, I just don't care. :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
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    mines terrible, i just have no idea!