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Which Do Your Prefer More Of In a Relationship

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by BlueCover905, Jul 27, 2014.

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which do you prefer more of in a relationship

  1. Sexy Moments

    4 vote(s)
    4.5%
  2. Romantic Moments

    35 vote(s)
    39.8%
  3. Mix

    49 vote(s)
    55.7%
  1. BlueCover905

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    I was just curious. Do you like more sexy moments or romantic moments.
     
  2. Hexagon

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    I have no idea, really. Not terribly fond of either.
     
  3. asdfghjk

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    adventures!!!!



    jk i have had neither so i wouldnt know yet
    :eusa_booh
     
  4. willycubed28

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    In my opinion I think you need a mixture of both. It keeps the relationship alive
     
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    I've not had a relationship, but I have to say romantic. With my sexuality, in order to find the proper term I had to separate sexual feelings from romantic ones, and I have to say, romantic feelings aren't quite as... euphoric as sexual ones, but they are still so much better.
     
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    I guess The more you get into a relationship with someone romance becomes allot more important .
     
  7. C06122014

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    Romantic moments I like romance when I think relationship I think romance or romantic moments :slight_smile:
     
  8. mobrien1993

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    Romantic moments
     
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    Funny sexy moments are the best.
     
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    Never had any moments that were horrifically sexual (unless you count the one time I accidentally saw under my crush's dress), so I said romantic. I do hold those moments to be more important than any kind of sex. Also, for me personally, I only find the idea of sex to be appealing if it's with someone I'm crazy attracted to, not just hookups and such. So, the sexual enjoyment would stem from the romantic.
     
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    I haven't even been in a relationship but I know that I would 1000% love a mix of both lol.
     
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    I like a mix of both. Both can be funny and spontaneous, which is the best. :slight_smile:
     
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    I'd much rather have romantic moments that sexual ones.
     
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    A mixture, definitely.

    I've not had heavily intimate experiences, but the concept of a mixture seems most appealing. A more flexible relationship seems more fun, which allows for more, I think, variety and degrees. Sometimes, a corny-ass, lights-low dinner for two is what's up. And, maybe, coming home to find you dressed as Batman/Wonder Woman, is also what's up. Surprises, with positive or loving, considerate intent, is one of a few things that makes life awesome.
     
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    I'd say a mixture of both for me. If it were to come down to either one, I'd prefer romantic moments :slight_smile:.
     
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    Gosh, I feel very alone up there in that poll.

    You see, I prefer "sexy" moments.

    Reason is... romantic moments and memories can be spoiled easily by bad breakup, fighting etc. - Once the love is gone, you will probably someday forget those romantic moments or at least not value them as such a perfect memory anymore, especially when you have found a new partner. All these moments will be lost in time, like tears in the rain.

    Now "sexy" moments on the other hand... A good shag is a good shag. And extremely erotic or sexual moment/encounter is just that and always will be. No matter what happens, no matter how horrible a breakup was, no matter if I found a new partner: Every pleasurable, erotic, beautiful sexual moment, every cock, tit, arse or cunt I've enjoyed so extremely much, every special and exciting way/place I've "done it"... fond memories forever. Nothing can spoil them.

    But that is just me, and I simply am a very sexual person.
     
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    I like a bit of both , if it's just sexual ; The relationship becomes boring unless I just wanted sex from the person but then I get bored and want to move on to someone else .
     
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    I didn't vote since I have no experience and don't really know which I'd really prefer in an actual relationship, but I think my preference would be to have more romantic situations. I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic sometimes, so I guess I would enjoy to be on the receiving end of romantic actions just as much as being the giver...
     
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    Romance.

    You both get to feel good and mushy and in love, an it often leads to leads to sexy moments anyway :slight_smile:
     
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    A mixture, but more romantic and/or funny :grin: