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Have you ever been tempted to cheat on your partner.

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  1. kosygin

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    I was with Frank my same-sex partner and never cheated on him -- except with women.
    Was I ever tempted to cheat on him -- Hmmm -- maybe once or twice.
     
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    Nope. I'm strictly monogamous.
     
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    Does it count if I cheated on a man with a woman? :lol:
     
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    I've never had a partner. I doubt I would be, though. And anyway, I'm not opposed to poly. Obviously it would be with a partner's consent.
     
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    I'm not morally opposed to poly, although it's certianly not my cup of tea. As long as everyone knows and consents to the idea, it's not cheating.
     
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    Nope. It sounds sick in my mind.
     
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    Yeah, thing is, I'd most likely never sleep with anyone else. I'd be fine with my partner doing it, but I'm just not terribly sexual. Hence why I doubt I'd cheat if there were no poly arrangement.
     
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    Nope, but there's certain things I'm into that my partner is not, so we allow a degree of openness, though mostly, we're monogamous.
     
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    Nope, I've been cheated on before and I know how it feels, so I would never want to do that to anybody else.
     
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    Yes, it does
     
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    You're contradicting yourself.

    Yes.
     
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    Well, Frank knew that I was in relationships with women. Actually, one of the women had been a classmate of his and another female, I even introduced Frank to her. Thing is none of the women who I was in relationships with knew that I was also being intimate with Frank -- so I guess I was being a sneaky with those women. Actually Frank sort of cheated on me -- which I didn't find out till well after the fact. But after thirty-five years, I never cheated on Frank with another guy, and I'm proud of that.