Frank and I had a thirty-five year relationship, but just about everything about him I found to be annoying -- sort of like being with a finicky fussbudget. So is there anything about your partner that just drives you crazy?
Well, there's mock crazy and then real crazy. Mock crazy is stuff that I pretend really annoys me and I give him grief for, but I'm actually ok with - that would be his occasionally juvenile sense of humor (stuck at about age 10) and his love of really awful puns (awful AWFUL puns). Real crazy - he's sometimes a bit passive aggressive. He'll somehow find a way to be late to places we are going no matter what. He'll sometimes try to block other drivers on the freeway, apparently because they've pissed him off somehow or are threatening his honor or something. He'll start projects and then not finish them sometimes. His project management skills are rather lacking. Todd
AKTodd, sounds a little like my ex. I once left him two phone messages and he got all ticked off saying he doesn't want me obsessing over him. A few days later I got three missed calls and three messages from him. When I asked him "Who's the one being obsessive now?" He replied it's not the same thing -- go figure.
I love everything about him....except that he's not very motivated. He could have a job waiting for him, too, but he doesn't. I guess I can understand because I've been depressed before and therefore unable to work. I dunno. Maybe I'm expecting too much from him. And I can be pretty unmotivated, too....
Well were long distance so we haven't got to be together physically yet. But I would say whenever we're talking just using one or two words when answering me is the thing that annoys me the most about her. After that I would say it's when she doesn't tell me how she feels, I don't know if something's wrong since I'm not there, I'm going off of words not body language.
Back when I had a partner, a few things rather pissed me off about him. He would repeat the same fucking thing every two days. Something that annoyed me to no end Me:[wake up, see a text from him, go back to sleep], later, what'd you need. Him: Oh I was horny. Not involved much in his studies as I was. Just stopped trying all at once. Glad I got out of that. Later, I found out that he would: Find a job and would quit as soon as he didn't like it without having another one lined up. And he resumed having hookups frequently >.>
I love my husband. But I have to say, it'd be his messiness and habit of piling his stuff everywhere. :3 I have OCD to an extent, and like things neat and orderly, so this drives me insane.
