Relationships with opposite sex

I am perpetually in a relationship with the opposite sex. However, I only like being in a relationship with a person of my gender. I like guys. As far as relationships with people of the opposite gender, no, I've never done that.

 

If I could go back in time I would never date a girl...at least the girls I did date. Wasted a year and a half with them unhappy, that's time I could've spent out the closet and as happy as I am now

 

No, in fact, I'm the only lesbian I know who's never gone through a "straight phase." It took me awhile to admit that I like women, but I always knew I didn't like men.

 

I had relationships with the opposite sex , I kinda regret them now because I wasted my time with people I was not attracted to and I could have been with people I actually liked .
But then again I was so deep in denial I didn't even want to admit I'm lesbian back then

 

Had a girlfriend at college.

 

I never have and wouldn't do that, I would feel too awful about it not just hiding myself but in a way building a relationship on a lie.

 

Yes I was from the age of 15-17. It was with a childhood friend.

It was mostly long distance though as even though we were in the same town it was hard to meet up (or I said that to myself as I was afraid meeting up would mean I'd have to act like a real boyfriend). We became very emotionally close throughout this relationship though so 'breaking up' was still hard.

I finally came out to her last year and since then we've become best friends. So I'm happy with how it's all turned out

 

Sort of once. I didn't think I was a lesbian at the time, I thought I was bi.

 

I have literally found out today a guy (my gaydar spoke) I went to school with, a year younger, turns out to be gay. I knew he had a GF a few months ago and though...well maybe I'm wrong, but I wasn't. Horrah.

sadly know he fills his Twitter with #gay #boyfriends

#ohfuckoff

 

I was in a relationship I kinda used her as a cover I felt bad.....but she cheated on me /.\ so I stopped feeling bad haha cx

 

I never had any interest in dating a guy, even before I realized I was gay and when I did, I knew I could never pretend to be straight. Unfortunately I felt the need to try and be straight last year. I met this guy, he was really nice and we got along but when nothing happened in the way of romance I knew that I would have to finally accept who I was. I am glad we never became involved. It would have been unfair to not only myself but the guy as well.

 

yes, i was with a woman for 24 years and i have the teenager to prove it. :lol: i didn't come out to myself till this spring.

 

my sophomore year of high school I dated a woman for 5 months or so. I lost my virginity to her. I wasn't in love, our relationship was OK for a while, but got bad as some personal life stuff happened and I couldn't deal with it.

It did solidify that I'm not gay and can have relationships/sex with the opposite gender and enjoy it.

 

I have been in a relationship with a guy, yeah. It was my only relationship, really. I didn't have a crush on a girl the same time we started going out, so I didn't use him to deny my sexuality. It was after I got over my girl-crush.

I went out and took a chance with him because I wanted to have some experience in the dating world and because I really did like him. The only thing I do regret is letting the relationship overwhelm me as much as it did.

 

I was in a relationship with a women back in my freshmen year of college. Honestly, I was indifferent about being in a relationship with a girl. I mean if nothing else, it solidified that I am gay as being in the relationship gave me little to no romantic feelings at all. The feeling I got were more of one I would have for a best friend.

 

I had relationships with guys in Junior High. Do those even count anymore? I'm in college now, and I've had triple the amount of time dating girls. :/

 

I've been in relationships with guys, but I don't regret it at all. At the time I didn't know I wanted something different because I had never had something different. Guys were all I knew and for the most part I was happy, so I went on with my life dating guys. I got along great with my boyfriends and guys in general. I always have. The problems always came with the sex part. I didn't enjoy having sex with my boyfriends or receiving oral from them. It was a constant fight. They would be upset with me and I'd be upset right back. Nobody was happy in the bedroom.

I liked girls and was definitely sexually attracted to them, but I was, and still am, a very logical person. I knew what bi-curiosity was and I knew that a lot of girls were only bicurious, so I figured that's what it was. I ignored it, didn't tell anyone, and continued on with my boyfriends.

I really started to question my orientation when I was in a long-term relationship with a truly wonderful guy. Seriously the best guy I know. He still is. Anyways, I fell head-over-heels for this girl I went to school with. By this time I'm in college, so I'm super confused as to why the "bicuriosity" hasn't gone away. I broke it off with him. Not for the girl mentioned above, as she had a girlfriend, but for women in general. One of the most difficult things I've ever had to do.

So I don't regret the relationships, but I do wish that I would have discovered myself sooner.

 

i just re-read the OP, would i change anything? No, i would not. i buried things deep for a reason, a very valid reason- survival.

would i change getting married and having a kid? no because then i wouldn't have this wonderful young man that i am raising as a single parent now. I came out to myself and some others this past spring and early summer and i'll come out to him in the coming weeks.

 

Yeah, I dated guys. It was when I thought I was bi.