"yeah, hes gay but hes really sound" as if him being gya would in anyway therefore implicate his personality as a bad one. hmmm.... converse on this
Not sure how shoes will help out But some people are like that, they probably mean nothing by it but I guess think on some level that the person they are talking to might not like gays.
Yup it's the kind of comment a supposedly "I have no problem with gays" person would make, but actually, they do have a (subconscious?) problem. Yuck. It's like this guy I met who I told I thought I was gay. He was like, "Oh yeah, I have no problem with gay people. Except, I don't like that gay guy Rick, you know the one? I think his camp attitude is really annoying. I don't like people like that." I should have said: Oh, well you know what, I have no problem with straights either. Except there's this one straight whose stupid attitude really irks me, I don't like people like that. Maybe you can guess who?
it just annoys me because she expected me to dislike him becuase he's gay... does she know IM gay??? ...who doesnt nowdays... nothings sacred anymore.
Its like the first aspect about a person personality is whether they are gay or not. we dont go around saying "you know he's straight but hes ok!!"
*cringes* Don't do it... please don't try it. It doesn't work :/ I find that most people that have such ignorant opinions are just that, ignorant. You wouldn't call them homophobic but the closest thing they have to 'knowing' a gay guy/girl is the Media, and we all know how BS that is.
