I thought that i finally was happy when i came out as a lesbian....But now seeing i have said something to my best friend.. I have been really thinking again of what actually am I. I'm now doubting myself if I am lesbian or should I start dressing and acting like a male. I have always liked looking at females. But I have also thought there was something wrong with me. I always thought I should of been born a male not a female...i have had that thought ever since i was small. How can i deal with all these thoughts that are going through my head right now...
I think you'd be better off posting this in the coming out section entitled "gender identity and expression" and the latter. I hope you find the answers that you're looking for .
I feel that you should do what feels natural but you don't have to dress like a man to be a lesbian like you don't have to dress like a woman to be a gay man.