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confused?????

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by notsurewhattodo, Aug 3, 2014.

  1. notsurewhattodo

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    I thought that i finally was happy when i came out as a lesbian....But now seeing i have said something to my best friend.. I have been really thinking again of what actually am I. I'm now doubting myself if I am lesbian or should I start dressing and acting like a male. I have always liked looking at females. But I have also thought there was something wrong with me. I always thought I should of been born a male not a female...i have had that thought ever since i was small. How can i deal with all these thoughts that are going through my head right now...
     
  2. Candace

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    I think you'd be better off posting this in the coming out section entitled "gender identity and expression" and the latter. I hope you find the answers that you're looking for :slight_smile:.
     
  3. happydavid

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    I feel that you should do what feels natural but you don't have to dress like a man to be a lesbian like you don't have to dress like a woman to be a gay man.
     
  4. scub

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    start wearing guys clothes and see how you feel.. my guess is you just have to experiment.