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Ladies what's youe idea, of what a real man is?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Lola LaRouge, Aug 4, 2014.

  1. Lola LaRouge

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    And it can be anything
     
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    someone who is kind to me and respects me
     
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    There aren't any unreal men. Just different kinds. They're all real.
     
  4. Someone who says they're a man is a 'real' man.

    I don't get to decide who is a 'real' man and who isn't or what qualities justify someone's gender.
     
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    Walks their own path. But, this can be said of anybody really.
     
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    a male ?:confused: , if we're getting to his personality well that's a different story
     
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    Apologies for not being a "lady."

    As far as I'm concerned, there's no such thing as what a man "should" be (i.e. a "real man"). They, as with every other human being, merely are - and not a one of them is like the other.

    Honestly these heteronormative questions tend to get on my nerves...
     
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    the fuck is a fakke man
     
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    One that treats women with respect. That is a real man.

    I don't come across many men who treat women like they are human beings but the ones I do meet I respect very much and gladly refer them as a ''real Man''
     
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    Wondering if the creator of this post wanted to know the girl's opinions on what a man should be in a relationship or if the accept transsexual males as the men they are inside.
     
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    He is my imaginary boyfriend, he is not a real person but he is in my world, how dare you suggest that my boyfriend ain't real, he real I tell ya, i'm not imaging things, he my fake boyfriend. He may be imaginary but our love is real.
     
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    Tell me what real woman is and I try to explain things on this side...

    Ain't society... nearly all world cultures put enough burden and emphasis to "being a man"? Don't know extended experiences with other countries to be honest just what I hear from friends around the world.

    In here you are expected to be a real man. Real men don't cry, real men don't laught too loud, real men don't show emotions, real men act violent, real men can cheat/f*ck around... list goes on.

    On the other side, if a women try to live their sexuality freely they declared slut, if a women too straight forward, brave or tought they entitled as lesbians/manhaters. Real women should bow to their father/husbands, real women doesn't ask just bear, real women doesn't need to educate themselves, real women doesn't/shouldn't enjoy sex as it is filthy, real women "can't" cheat their husbands or divorce them... if they did it means their days are numbered... family/manly honor comes first.

    Anyway venting off, not directed to any poster here but in world/life we live in. :frowning2:
     
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    The concept is invalid and sexist.
     
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    I agree with this lady ^^^ no singular personality type, body shape or persona is a 'real' man. DNA decides that, not the way he acts or the way he looks. I feel the same about a 'real' woman, too.
     
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    If he says he's real, then he's real.
     
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    I always treated women with kindness and respect back when I was straight. I don't personally know any men who treat women as less than human, but I hear about guys like this, and I also notice some guys who appear to talk as if it's ok to do so.
     
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    And those guys would be screwed if they came across me.. because I am for EQUALITY.. Any woman hater on this forum or in real life would be walking on sticks around me.. I have a vision of the world becoming safe for men and women. I don't want to turn this into a feminist debate I was just putting my opinion out there.
     
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    Gotta agree..
     
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    Figuratively speaking, a manly man who is also a gentleman. Literally speaking, someone who identifies as male, of course.

    And a fake man is someone who identifies as female and pretends to be male, following that logic.