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poll: thoughts on the 69 position

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by redneck, Aug 5, 2014.

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Do you like to 69?

Poll closed Aug 12, 2014.
  1. Yes, Love it!!!

    19 vote(s)
    25.7%
  2. Not my favorite but will do it.

    20 vote(s)
    27.0%
  3. I dislike it.

    8 vote(s)
    10.8%
  4. Never tried.

    27 vote(s)
    36.5%
  1. redneck

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    I always hear people say they love this position but I really don't care for it. It combines two of my favorite sexual activities in one but I don't really care for it. It seems to me that either my partner is really good at what they are doing and I kinda forget that I'm supposed to be pleasuring them in return, my partner gets involved with what I'm doing to them and forgets, or if we are both doing our thing neither one is doing it well because it is a bit of an awkward angle.

    Personality I'd rather just switch positions back and forth til neither of us can move. What are your thoughts? I know I'm not the only one who dislikes this, but it sure feels like it.
     
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    Never tried.
     
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    I've never been great at multitasking. Still, I like the thought of it, and it's definitely something I look forward to trying someday.
     
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    I don't like it that much. :eusa_thin I like giving oral, and receiving is nice, but it just tickles and distracts me to get while I'm trying to give. :lol: It just doesn't live up to the hype. The only people who still obsess over it are the people who've never done it. :grin:
     
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    Pretty much my thought process. Glad to see I'm not alone
     
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    Who doesn't like meat?
     
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    Oh I love it!

    Eating while being eaten is just so extremely hot.
     
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    Eh, it's okay. Modification may be necessary for those of us who are overweight, but otherwise, it's all right.
     
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    The idea is hot, *doing* it is hot (and yummy)...but I can only recall a couple times I've reached climax during 69. It is simply distracting...and the position itself isn't all that comfortable or convenient, really.

    That said, best results have come from not doing things simultaneously, but letting energy cycle back and forth...I'll pleasure for a while, and then when she starts, I'll back off into receptive mode until I feel an urge to start again, at which point she backs off, etc.

    So overall, my vote was "Not my favorite, but I'll do it"...I'll even initiate it once in a while...but I don't generally have high expectations from it...more as foreplay in expectation of other activity!
     
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    I've never tried it, but it feels like it's too much and would cause so much confusion.
     
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    I should add that I've never done it with a guy...that could add interesting complexities and delights...and possibly other difficulties.
     
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    I either like to be the bitch or the dominant one. I dislike the ambiguity of this position.
     
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    Never tried it. I've never had sex, but the 69 position looks a lot more fun than scissoring.
     
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    Meh. Easier and better with a guy than with a girl, but not my favorite position. It feels kind of forced and uncomfortable. On top is definitely better than bottom, because if I'm the one on bottom, I end up getting cramps in my neck from having to lift my head up to reach for my partner's genitals. Sideways is a lot better, too, but doesn't work well with a girl.
     
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    69, hell yeh. In my last relationship my ex-wife and I loved this.

    Happy days :slight_smile:
     
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    I haven't tried it but I think I will like it.. I'd rest my head on his thigh :lol:
     
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    I've never done it but, my ex from a long distance relationship told me it's very enjoyable in lesbian sex , I don't know back then when she told ,me about I really didn't see the appeal about it or cared for it .:confused:
     
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    I like it, but I don't do it side by side. I prefer to do it on each other, either on top or bottom I don't mind. I like it because you can sorta stand up and push it in similar to having sex, and then you can continue while you go down on them. Admittedly the person on the bottom can choke a little but that's alright as long as you are careful to keep moving. Switch it up etc.
     
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    I like it alot. Much more pleasurable with a guy than a girl. Side to side is cool, but on top is awesome.
     
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    While I love to give head and eat out... and love to be ate out, I don't really like 69 with a guy or a girl. Yes, there is too much distractions. I like some give and take. :wink:
    I will do it, but I really prefere not.